Raise them to fear the wrath of an Angry God. Raise them to know why all other religions are stupid and to be avoided at any cost. Spare the Rod and you will spoil the child. Raise them to totally respect authority, especially from their father and mother, and you will have done a darn good thing.
Any weakness in raising children invites the Devil into their lives and can result in their destruction. You will only have yourself to blame if that happens.
Look around you at the soaring crime rates, the abuse of drugs, and giving and taking in marriage and all the other sins that God says he will kill people for if they do not change their ways, and you will know how important it is to raise the Children the correct way.
*shudder*
welcome back neubarth.
I have raised 33 children. All of my children have been top honor students. Set the standards high and you will get good results. All of my children are responsible hard working adults and excellent parents. When the Bible says spare the rod and spoil the child, that is exactly what the Bible means. The Bible also warns parents to "Raise up a child in the way that he is to go and when he is old he will not depart from it." There is a reason for that. God said that is the way to do it and nothing else will work with any consistency.
I have had perfect success with my children. I attribute that to being obedient to a God of Wrath and Anger, not a namby pamby God of Universal Love as is falsely taught in the Churches across America now-a-days. That is the false religion that God rails against. Turn away from false teachings and honor the God of the Bible.