Oh, I've always said that we cannot KNOW things, we can only have faith that we know. A lot of people become upset when they hear this but it's a fact. Physical science is bound by the laws of physics and nature, it cannot evaluate that which is outside of physics. Therefore, creative forces beyond the physical are not something we can examine with physical sciences.
Furthermore, if there were ever to become some way of verifying a creative metaphysical force through science, it would automatically cease to be something metaphysical, by definition. I've often said, if science ever proved God exists, the Atheists would chortle... See? We told you there was no such thing as God!
Think about that... once upon a time, humans believed the rain came from God. Then science comes along and explains how rain happens and suddenly, the rain doesn't come from God, it's a natural phenomenon. BUT... do we understand why two molecules of hydrogen bond with one molecule of oxygen to form a compound which is liquid at a certain temperature range, a solid or gas if the temperature is extreme, and a foundation to all life as we know it? Do we understand why (not how) these elements evaporate into the atmosphere to form clouds and then become too heavy to stay there and fall back to the ground? Nope... we just know that it does and we can explain how it works.
The cosmological constants... there are about 40 of them... are set precisely as they need to be in order for a physical universe to exist and in order for carbon-based life to exist as well as planets and suns. Nothing in physics dictates that universes MUST contain these constants, ours just does. Many will shrug this off and say... just the way it is... but it's like someone winning the powerball lottery 40 times in a row, except with 10^120 numbers available as possibilities. Are we really THAT lucky? I don't think that is rational.
Red:
Yes, we do know why, and the reason why has nothing to do with forming "a compound which is liquid at a certain temperature range, a solid or gas if the temperature is extreme, and a foundation to all life as we know it." The things you identified -- forming a compound that can exist in multiple matter states, or forming one that is able to serve as the foundation of life as we know it -- are outcomes of the fact that hydrogen and oxygen atoms do bond for form a water molecule. They are not the reason why those two atoms do so.
The reason they do so is found in the "
octet rule," that is, because the atoms "want to"/"prefer to" exits with stable electron shells, and lacking enough electrons to do that on their own, they find other atoms with which they can bond, thereby producing an overall stable molecule even though alone neither element was stable. This can be relatively easily seen when one examines what inert elements do as compared and contrasted with what unstable elements do. Take
neon or
helium, for example. Neither any need or "inclination" to bond chemically with anything else. They're fine with forming a physical bond with other substances, but not a chemical one.
As for the liquid, gas, or solid thing, that's just a matter of the temperature at which one encounters a given element. Go somewhere cold enough, for example, and nitrogen is a liquid, colder still and it's a solid. The
same thing happens with gold, which in hot enough environments will become a gas. That is so with
all elements except helium.
Blue:
Are you by some chance seeking to highlight the distinction between sentient action and non-sentient action? Something akin to "why Billy stepped on Mary's foot" as opposed to "by what mechanism ihs limbs and muscles did so?" That statement sure seems like you are.