Been married since Aug 10 1983, and you?
You have me beat by one year and one day: August 11, 1984.
Religious sacraments shouldn't - if they are solely religious sacraments - require the approval of secular law, well as long as they don't breach secular laws. Do you agree with that?
Laws are changed all the time and in a liberal democracy they're changed in public, via the legislative process. If they weren't society would grind to a halt.
The history of marriage is interesting. It was a legal arrangement before it took on a religious hue.
Marriage is a religious rite and quite truthfully the government has no business being involved in its promotion. Why is the government involved? Well, one because it is good for society and two because it is another way for government to tax us. That is right, the fees you pay to get that marriage license is a tax.
There is no reason that the government can not promote "family values" and collect those taxes without interfering or promoting a religious rite. If the benefits of "marriage" were not granted to couples who were only married in the church (grandfathered marriages excluded) but required a civil union for all couples straight and gay this would be accomplished. Basically the marriage license issued by the state is nothing more than a civil contract. In today's society, a person need not be married by the church, nor is it blessed by the church if it is simply a "courtroom wedding". So, why do we have to insist that this be called a "marriage"? Why can't these kind of arrangements be called "civil unions"? Why can't a religious couple "buy" the societal benefits of a civil union AND be married by the church which offers none of those benefits yet blesses the marriage?
Along with that, there would be no reason that a gay couple could not go to a church that condones homosexual relationships and get "married".
What it means is this.
Marriage, after all, isn't a sacrament, it's a legal arrangement.
Or it means that Mr Manchester no longer has his Catholic faith.
But could mean that Mr Manchester still has his Catholic faith, just not all of it, he's ditched the bit about marriage being a sacrament.
Mr Manchester could also be a hypocrite.
Your choice.
I disagree with you here and it seems to me that everyone is missing a piece of the puzzle here. It seems that everyone assumes that Mr. Manchester chose to leave his wife. After reading the OP, and maybe I missed something, I don't know for sure that Mr. Manchester is the one that began the divorce proceedings and that it was not his wife who started all of this. Maybe she fell in love with someone else and threw him out despite his love for her? I don't know how it happened, but, maybe it was not his choice. Nor is there evidence that Mrs. Manchester held Mr. Manchester's beliefs on the Sanctity of Marriage.
And, with ALL that said, it is true, that to some the Sanctity of Marriage means that marriage is between one man and one woman. To some, it may not mean that a particular marriage is sacred and cannot be broken by divorce. Just because I believe that marriage is for life, doesn't mean my wife does, although it appears to me that she does, but it doesn't mean that just because Mr. Manchester believes that marriage is between one man and one woman, as I do, doesn't mean that he believes that marriage is eternal or at least lifelong.
Immie