"Previous criminal records that they were probably just slapped on the wrist for."
While there were many great points made on this thread this one kind of stuck out for me. IMHO this is one of the biggest reasons so many young kids are repeat offenders with their offenses escalating until something like this happens. We've become so scared of "damaging a childs psyche" that real punishment has been thrown out the window. Kids these days ARE simply given a smack on the wrist for wrongs done leaving them with the feelings "if I can do this with no repercussions then I should be able to do this" and on and on and on until something horrific like this case happens. I'm not saying beat your kids or that kids should automatically be locked up for an extended period of time at the time of their first major offense or crime. I am a proponent of spanking and feel that a simple spanking, NOT beating, does NOT damage a child for life. But find out what the fk caused the initial foray into reprehensible behavior, force the child to take responsibility for what THEY did, and act accordingly. All to often you hear how a child doing something such as this had a bad childhood, or they're misunderstood, or they're a product of their environment, effectively giving that child an "out" for what they did. They walk away from it feeling completely justified because, after all, it wasn't their fault. THEY are the victim! The actual victims in these crimes lose out. Then the child committing the crime loses out because they are left feeling they can do anything and get away with it because they are really the victim in the whole thing, not the person they victimized. Millions of kids grew up in households where they were spanked, NOT beaten, for wrong doings and grew up to be responsible, law abiding, caring adults. I remember getting to the point in my youth that I would actually BEG for a spanking over the punishment I knew was coming because the spanking was over and done with in a matter of minutes. It was a hell of a lot more preferrable to being put on "restriction" which meant I lost all freedoms for up to a month depending on what I did. Sure there were a few youthful, stupid, indiscretions committed while "growing up" but none involved a victim in the terms of physical assault or inflicting physical pain or such as that. MILLIONS of kids grew up the same way and have not gone on to commit unspeakable crimes against other people as adults. There is no personal responsibility anymore when it comes to the youth in this country. Plenty of excuses made, but no forcing of accepting the responsibility for their actions. You can blame it on TV, you can blame it on video games, you can blame it on bad parenting, etc etc etc but IMHO it is the lack of demanding they take responsibility for what they did letting them know the first time that it won't be tolerated and they will be punished accordingly. Kids are not stupid. If they know they're not going to get away with something more times than not they won't do it again or do something equally as dumb. But when they walk away from their crimes being told that it's not their fault, they are the victim, they're not responsible for their actions of course they're going to move on to bigger and worse offenses. Why not? Nothing they do, in their minds, is their fault anymore.
Yes, there are those that grow up in the most wonderful of households in the best of ways that go on to commit horrible crimes. It happens. But that, IMO, is not the majority. Though there should have been signs, very visible signs, that alerted those close to them that some wire somewhere wasn't firing as it should and they were gotten the help they needed before the problem escalated. I am constantly floored by the parents that claim they never saw anything unusual in their kids actions to alert them that something could happen. It reeks to me of simply NOT paying a hell of a lot of attention to your kids for whatever reason.
This child will bear the scars of this day for the rest of his life. Sadly, the perpetrators will also bear scars for their acts. Will they be forced to take responsibility for what they did? That is yet to be seen. But I'd be willing to bet you start hearing the usual platitudes of, "he's such a good kid", "he always does well in school", "we raised him right", blah blah blah once again giving the kid the "out" they need to NOT accept full responsibility for their actions. And if they walk away from this with a mere slap on the wrist you can just about be guaranteed you will hear of a far worse offense being committed by one or more of them.
We've got to stop molly coddling kids. We've got to stop pampering them. We've got to make kids understand as they're growing and learning about life that they have to be responsible for their actions, good or bad. We've got to stop victimizing the ones doing the victimizing. When more of our youth realize that behaviors such as this will not only NOT be tolerated but they WILL be punished for their actions, IMO, you'll see a lot less crime committed by the youth in this country. TV, video games, rap music, country music, movies, etc are NOT the problem.........allowing our youth to think it's all OK to emulate what they see or hear and not have to be responsible for what they do IS!