On attracting men

[MayorQuimby]

What can a woman do, if the man she likes won't ask her out? I am certainly not gonna go up to a guy and ask him out.

And I can really see it happening, as the sort of men I like are very, very good-looking. These men have options, and even though I am somewhat attractive, I am really very very far from a 10. I can really see these men just sitting back and seeing me as just one among the many that I am sure just doorstep them.

 

[braalian]

I am certainly not gonna go up to a guy and ask him out.

Why not?

It’s 2025

 

[MayorQuimby]

Why not?

It’s 2025

Nothing to do with that.

When I see a guy I am really really attracted to, I start to panic on the inside and then on the outside, I act really awkward and cringeworthy.

 

[braalian]

It is rather confusing that your username is a male character and your avatar gives no hints

 

[Darkwind]

It is rather confusing that your username is a male character and your avatar gives no hints

Right?

I was thinking the moniker was a dud who just likes to have oral sex with women.

 

[Darkwind]

Nothing to do with that.

When I see a guy I am really really attracted to, I start to panic on the inside and then on the outside, I act really awkward and cringeworthy.

There is an old trick for that.

Just imagine him with your clothes off..


er.. No wait. That's backward. Imagine him with....


Er... No, best not do that. It could be disappointing.

I've found that a good strategy for this kind of thing is to just treat him/her as a friend first. Once that is established, the nervousness goes away. Being familiar with someone often induces relaxation and curbs bangxiety.

 

[MayorQuimby]

It is rather confusing that your username is a male character and your avatar gives no hints

Right?

I was thinking the moniker was a dud who just likes to have oral sex with women.

Lol.

Mayor Quimby was one of my favorite characters from the Simpsons. He hella funny.

 

[Darkwind]

Lol.

Mayor Quimby was one of my favorite characters from the Simpsons. He hella funny.

Okay.

Just one questions.

Are you a woman or one of those "I identify as" types? Honest question.

 

[Carl in Michigan]

Nothing to do with that.

When I see a guy I am really really attracted to, I start to panic on the inside and then on the outside, I act really awkward and cringeworthy.

Welcome to what EVERY GUY goes through. And a lot of women aren't very nice about it either

 

[MayorQuimby]

Okay.

Just one questions.

Are you a woman or one of those "I identify as" types? Honest question.

I am a real woman. Don't get too excited though, I am old and asian.

Welcome to what EVERY GUY goes through. And a lot of women aren't very nice about it either

So how do you guys deal with it? Share your tricks with me. I struggle badly in this area.

 

[Twisted Gypsy Child]

What can a woman do, if the man she likes won't ask her out? I am certainly not gonna go up to a guy and ask him out.

And I can really see it happening, as the sort of men I like are very, very good-looking. These men have options, and even though I am somewhat attractive, I am really very very far from a 10. I can really see these men just sitting back and seeing me as just one among the many that I am sure just doorstep them.

OK I am not a racist, I am Asian myself, but honestly, any white man who would pork an Asian woman instead of a white one is seriously mentally ill or just inadequate in some way. They can't find a white woman to **** them so they have to **** an Asian one. This is the only explanation.

start looking for OTW

 

[Zebra]

It is rather confusing that your username is a male character and your avatar gives no hints

really confusing!

 

[MayorQuimby]

start looking for OTW

What's OTW and I see that you went through my posts

 

[MayorQuimby]

really confusing!

Fine maybe I will upload the picture of a puppy or a rose so that people will think I am a woman.

 

[Darkwind]

I am a real woman. Don't get too excited though, I am old and asian.





So how do you guys deal with it? Share your tricks with me. I struggle badly in this area.

LMAO

I think it's okay. I'm old and Caucasian!

I'll alter My perception accordingly. Meaning seeing you as a woman, I don't care about your ethnicity.

Besides, I'm married and not looking for an online relationship. Though I may tease you mercilessly at times. hehe

I pretty much gave you my recipe for dealing with anxiety regarding pretty women.

I make friends with them without the sexual undertones first. Then, after I know them and I still find them attractive, well... you just have to take a leap of faith.

 

[1srelluc]

I am a real woman. Don't get too excited though, I am old and asian.

Sadly for you most men have seen this old meme by now.

"Yellow Fever" or not, nobody wants a potential Yoko Ono.

 

[MayorQuimby]

LMAO

I think it's okay. I'm old and Caucasian!

I'll alter My perception accordingly. Meaning seeing you as a woman, I don't care about your ethnicity.

Besides, I'm married and not looking for an online relationship. Though I may tease you mercilessly at times. hehe

I pretty much gave you my recipe for dealing with anxiety regarding pretty women.

I make friends with them without the sexual undertones first. Then, after I know them and I still find them attractive, well... you just have to take a leap of faith.

Hmm. Become friends with him first. That seems easy enough.

I sometimes might still act a bit awkward around him though simply because he is so good-looking.

 

[Darkwind]

Hmm. Become friends with him first. That seems easy enough.

I sometimes might still act a bit awkward around him though simply because he is so good-looking.

I'll give you a little hint about that.

A lot of guys find that endearting and a huge stroke to their ego. I'm sure you understand about men and their egos if you're an older adult.

 

[MayorQuimby]

I'll give you a little hint about that.

A lot of guys find that endearting and a huge stroke to their ego. I'm sure you understand about men and their egos if you're an older adult.

Haha, you mean guys actually like that? Right there is the huge difference between men and women. Because I think most women would be put off by that.

 

[Twisted Gypsy Child]

What's OTW and I see that you went through my posts

Other than white and I told you this before and you laughed it off. You are not going to find a sane adequate white man to date you per your own admission. You are an Asian cross dresser.

OK I am not a racist, I am Asian myself, but honestly, any white man who would pork an Asian woman instead of a white one is seriously mentally ill or just inadequate in some way. They can't find a white woman to **** them so they have to **** an Asian one. This is the only explanation.