You do have say.... You just are failing at it! You chose to force your say on others thru the government, thru an authoritarian way..... And thru lies, like the one constantly repeated that all the democrats support abortion thru 9 months, or until birth..... And calling women and girls murderers....and murdering some abortion doctors..... Etc etc etc etc...
Instead of winning hearts and minds over to your position, you chose a political route, a divisive route filled with hatred.... Hatred towards women, having to make the hardest decision of their life....
Instead of winning them over with love and compassion and help.....you CHOSE hatred!
You chose wrongly. God let you lose.