The Army needs to treat all soldiers equally. If DADT is the policy, then it needs to be applied equally. So if a soldier returns from a three day pass and brags about all the chicks he banged, he should be separated
If a soldier is getting married, there should be no announcement and no celebration. If a soldier has a fight with his wife, he is not allowed to talk about it
I personally don't allow soldiers to brag about sex escapades in my shop and it really isn't allowed anyways. if you say all people should be trated equally fine, that would mean people of every kind of sexual lifestyle can all do the same, the military is not a democracy like it is for you legs and civilians on the outside and you can't certainly expect soldiers who feel uncomfortable about sharing a shower or barracks room with an openly gay soldier to just deal with it, repealing DADT isn't going to make soldiers more tolerant. I support all of the wishes of gays as it pertains to things outside the military, but inside is a different story and unless you're in the military you shouldn't speak on it. The only way I'd agree to repealling DADT is if accomodations were made for those who feel uncomfortable around openly gay soldiers in the scenarios I just described.