Pretty hard to hear each other when everyone is screaming at the same time...
This is why we need more listening. This is why I favor what I call "round-table discussions." What I mean is, and really it is a fantasy, that everybody who has a bone to pick is given a chance to state their case and lay it all out, with the others actually listening, and then the right to speak gets passed to the next, and all, including the previous speaker, get to listen. All sorts of people/groups have issues.
I truly don't understand what some people/groups want out of the rest of us, and why? Do they have a legitimate complaint?