Per the NFL rulebook:
- It should be pointed out to players and coaches that we continue to be judged by the public in this area of respect for the flag and our country.
2017 Rulebook
The link above is for the PDF download of the rulebook. Doing a search for the word "country," one finds that word does not appear in the whole of the document. Searching for the word "judged," one finds it four times and none of them is in the sentence you've indicated. Accordingly, I deem that the so-called rule you (your mother?) claims is in the rulebook is wholly fabricated.
So now I have found out who is the real source for the statement about what's in the NFL rulebook:
a Facebook comment by Kathleen McSweeney Lanoie. (See the comments re: the New England Patriots post here:
New England Patriots on MassLive.com)
Who is Kathleen McSweeney Lanoie?
What portfolio has Kathleen McSweeney Lanoie?
The passage Lanoie cited came not from the "NFL League Rulebook" as she claimed, but rather from a document called the "game operations manual," at least
according to Time. From where Lanoie got the manual or learned of it's content is anybody's guess.
I cannot find the document on the NFL's website.
The magazine also reports that "'The league’s Game Operations Department uses the manual to govern the conduct of home clubs, to ensure they protect players and provide the conditions for a fair and fan-friendly contest,' reads the NFL's
website."
According to Time and an NFL spokesperson, the Game Operations Manual states:
The National
Anthem must be played prior to every NFL game, and all players must be on the sideline for the National Anthem.
During the National Anthem, players on the field and bench area
should stand at attention, face the flag, hold helmets in their left hand, and refrain from talking. The home team should ensure that the American flag is in good condition. It should be pointed out to players and coaches that we continue to be judged by the public in this area of respect for the flag and our country. Failure to be on the field by the start of the National Anthem
may result in discipline, such as fines, suspensions, and/or the forfeiture of draft choice(s) for violations of the above, including first offenses.
my Mom shared this with me so I'm assume its accurate but will see if I can find the link
Is Kathleen McSweeney Lanoie your mom? Of course, she need not be; Lanoie's FB post is stated to have
gone viral.
I don't know what "gone viral" means in a quantitative sense. Qualitatively, I understand it to mean many people have seen the post and propagated it, apparently without confirming its accuracy.