I appreciate the lesson that your dad taught you. I was raised with similar values... but it did shock me when I was 16 and I got a fake ID, never told my parents. It lasted for a year then delaminated. 2 years later My family was going on a vacation for my moms birthday and my dad had found the ID in my drawer. The day of the trip he sits me down and told me he found the ID, I turned white. He let the fear linger for a minute the pulled it out of his pocket, relaminated and looking like new. He said this trip we are going to the casino and I'm teaching you how to play blackjack and poker.
Yes it was illegal but it was also a victimless crime.
i don't condone illegal border crossing, I don't think it is fair to those who go through the legal process. I'm fine with cracking down on that system and making it better. But the people who do it are not violent criminals, they are often poor and desperate and looking for a better life for their families. That may not excuse their actions but but it gives me compassion for their situation and an open mind on how to deal with millions of people who are in a tough spot. Especially if they have children who have lived here most of their lives.
There is no such thing as a victim-less crime. No such thing.
Every single time you commit a crime, you justify crime to everyone else. You victimize the entire nation as a whole.
Every person ever caught in any crime immediately points to other people doing it, and saying "See? They do it, so why can't I". The very act of calling it a victim-less crime, creates more crime.
All you have to do is go to a prison, and talk to the people there, and every single one will say they shouldn't be there, because other people have done wrong things, and they are not there.
And all I need for proof of my claim... is your own story, and post. Your father committed a crime, and because of that, he taught you that crime is ok.... which is why you are here on this thread right now, justifying crime.
You are living proof of exactly what I was saying. By your father giving a pass to crime, he taught you to give a pass to crime, and you are here trying to teach others to give a pass to crime.
And compare that to my family, which taught me right from wrong, and that crime is always wrong, and so I don't do it, and I'm teaching others to not do it either.
Everything I claimed played out right on this thread.
Of course there are victimless crimes. If I smoke a doobie, who is the victim?
I just explained that. I don't know how I can be any clearer.
When you break the law, you justify law breaking to the rest of society. I can't tell you the number of times other criminals doing other things, claim "well that guy smokes pot, and he's not in trouble. Why am I in trouble?"
Now you can come up with all your logical explanations for why your law breaking is ok, and their law breaking isn't... but they don't care. To them, you are a criminal like them. So if it's ok for you to break the law, then they should be able to as well.
Beyond that even, the vast majority of this crap about how your pot smoking has no victims, I just don't meet those people. Where are these people? In real life, not on a forum. Everyone's crime is victimless on a forum.
It's ironic, because I'm actually talking with a guy dealing with one of these victim-less crime people right now.
He's a co-worker who is in the middle of a marriage break down. His wife kicked him out of the house and I asked him what was going on. Well... his father is this Willie Nelson wannabe, who smokes pot constantly.
His father's 'wives' have all divorced him, some remarried thinking he'd become a man, and divorced him again because he went back on the weed. His children hate him. His grand kids don't know him, most of them. They guy is lonely, living in a shack with his pot.
So this dudes wife, is now accusing him on being on weed, because he's the one guy that deals with loser pot head grampa. Then when he got kicked out, he slept at pot-heads shack, only to come into work smelling like pot. Well you can't have a pot head running the fork lift.
And then on top of that, his daughter is turning into a hellion, and she says "well gramps breaks the law so...." to justify the insanity she's into.
Now the typical pot head will say "it's everyone elses fault that there are these problems".
In reality, there is one guy screwing up the lives of literally dozens of people, his wives lives, his kids lives, and his grand kids lives, and I bit you anything he's sitting at home smoking pot saying "this is a victim-less crime!".
Well... he's wrong. And no offense, but you are wrong too.