Depends on a lot of things. Might be best to put them in a home. And what about sex? Can you swing or are you committed to that person till death? Christopher reeves wife. Did she stay faithful? How many hours did she sit with Chris? Omg kill me. But if you get married you should care for them. But what if you can't afford to? You could have to put your spouse in a home.Another question. You meet the love of your life. She is hot. Great bod. Wonderful mate. But she has thyroid issues later in life...or gets RA or some other debilitating disease, and gains some weight. Do you still love her?
And for women. Same question, but he doesn't get fat. He is in a car wreck and winds up paralyzed from the waist down. No more sex for him. Maybe for you if he uses his hands but nothing for him. Do you stay with him or still love him?
This should separate the horntoads from the real men. And women.