Mediation with my wife, the most important negotiate perhaps in my life; has to be conducted solely through the mediator, we won't speak to each other

[Woodznutz]

Most marriages fail because of selfish motives of either the husband or wife. A lasting marriage is built on trust and commitment to your partner.

And common goals.

 

[Blaster]

I've met lots of women and men that had failed marriages and a lack of communication is one thing most of them admitted helped doom the marriage.