We aren't really talking about your kids right now it was a girlfriend. But in that vein would your kids have a right to record you in your home and broadcast whatever it is you're doing on the internet? Or does your right to rule your home exclude you from what you are denying others in the home? So in other words you don't have any right to privacy, your kids don't (understandable) but you expect full privacy.
The problem is you're confusing the court of law with the so-called "court of public opinion". "Rights" don't exist in the court of public opinion. To continue my analogy from before, let's say my kid videotaped me saying "Kill all the Jews", and posted it on the internet.
My kid doesn't have the "right" to do that, but nevertheless, my boss does have the "right" to fire me over it. The real world isn't like a court - evidence gathered illegally can still be used against you, as long as it's not the government doing it.
You know there's no restriction against illegally recorded evidence in a civil trial, right? Those restrictions on evidence, "rights" and such only apply when it's the government making the case.
We're not talking about the legal system. Donald Sterling isn't being prosecuted for a crime. He's suffering the consequences of an action that he thought wouldn't have any consequences. He was wrong.
No one has the "right" to do it. But I can still face consequences for it, if someone does it.
Government doesn't need to do anything if we are going to do it to ourselves. If we the people are going to take rights away in the name of technology and bypass the courts government just has to stand on the sidelines and cheer us on to our own destruction. After all the court of law isn't needed if we are going to go with the court of public opinion. Youtube hits are better than legal wins, it's all about getting viral.
The "court of public opinion" can't send you to jail, or impose any sort of criminal punishment. The "court of public opinion" is just public opinion - and the public does have the right to their opinion. If that opinion is negative, that's the way it goes.