You're looking at it backwards. For the purposes of this discussion, let's clear up, once and for all, just who "government" is, and what constitutes government intrusion.
Our founding fathers distrusted government - particularly CENTRAL government. In the Constitution, they made it expressly clear that central government was to be kept on a short leash - given a few very specific powers and responsibilities - and otherwise instructed - CLEARLY - to butt out of the people's conduct of their everyday lives. A national abortion policy? Nine men in black robes creating new "rights" out of whole cloth? You can't get much further from the constitutional design of self-government than that, without descending into outright tyranny.
Abortion policy is the PEOPLE'S business. This is not "the government stepping in and 'protecting' people"; quite the contrary - it is the people running their own affairs, per the U.S. Constitution. And, before you say "It's nobody's business", remember - the people have a stake in this matter, too. The generalized cheapening of human life - the relentless advance of a barbarianism that places personal convenience and the dodging of consequences above innocent, helpless life - is a state of affairs that society has begun to regard with alarm - and not a moment too soon, I might add.
You've got a blind spot on this, which is strange and interesting. Surely you can see that conservatism is winning the day; that relics of liberal social engineering such as Roe vs. Wade are dead men walking; that this is a good thing. We're taking our country back, and people are going to find out that changing law is a matter of CHANGING MINDS - not running to friendly judges. Might I suggest that angrily snapping at people that their beliefs are stupid is a bad start?