I don't think people of ANY race agree to getting beaten up by thugs of ANY race.
Even if you forgive the fact this stuff happens every day, why not just agree to hold wrongdoers accountable for their actions.
Why does forgiveness of one person or another have anything to do with holding them accountable for crimes?
You can forgive people for crimes or abuses, and still carry out the law.
Forgiveness does not mean tolerating or excusing the wrongdoing.
Just as REFUSING to forgive is not required in order to hold people to the law.
I think people are mistaking both,
thinking it is necessary to hate and blame in order to enforce laws
and that forgiving means letting it happen again and again. That's not true forgiveness, but fear of confronting it that allows it to keep going. Forgiving still involves working with people to ensure the issues are resolved; it isn't a free pass to commit wrongs!
Forgiveness is free, trust is earned. You do have an obligation to get them off the streets before they harm someone but when they are standing in front of the judge mercy triumphs over judgment. When you extend grace to someone they usually try to live up to it. Even if they weren't before.
A judge can show mercy to a degree, but people who feloniously assault others belong in prison.
I'm saying the two should be separate. Like separating church and state.
All people who commit crimes or abuses should be held responsible for rectifying those damages. Period.
Forgiving you emotionally or personally is separate.
That has nothing to do with the financial and legal obligations you have to remedy the wrongs committed and damage done.
Why can't people separate this in their minds?
You can forgive a murderer personally and spiritually
and they can still be held to pay back 5 or 10 million in restitution for taking a life.
If we had consistent punishment and consequences per crime, without mixing in the emotional factor which is separate,
maybe we'd have consistent expectations and people might respect the laws.
Parents and kids can still "forgive each other emotionally" and have healthy normal relations,
and still go through the process of getting grounded for a set period of time for staying out late past curfew
or having pay a 70.00 ticket on the car for parking it in a no parking zone.
Forgiving someone for doing that still means they have to pay the ticket or it's not fair to make someone else pay.
I have zero idea what you are getting at. How does the legal system forgive someone?
For example, in the case of Juan Quintero who shot and killed Officer Rodney Johnson.
Instead of getting the death penalty or being held to any restitution at all,
he was deemed mentally impaired and given a life sentence, even though technically he
was an illegal deportee who already had a criminal record.
Why not hold people accountable for the costs of their crimes,
or in the case of mentally ill people, whichever family knew they had criminal or behavioral sickness
and let them run around without reporting it, should be held for the costs of negligence if they "had knowledge"
this person was a DANGER to society.
Our system does not hold people accountable for the restitution proportionate to the crime.
We expect taxpayers to pay, who didn't commit the crimes.
Now that's FINE to give people second chances to rectify their lives,
such as the STAR program that is proven to work more cost-effectively.
But it STILL needs to HOLD people accountable for the damages
and not "confuse giving people second chances" such as with probation
with "exempting them from responsibility for paying the COSTS."
You can be on probation and still be expected to pay the costs.
What if you wipe out the head of a family where other members depend on that income?
Why shouldn't your income be used to invest in helping that family become independent
so they aren't thrown into poverty or crisis if you commit premeditated murder and cost them on multiple levels?
Why aren't we looking at the true social and financial costs,
and adding that to the consequences of the crimes?
Somehow we are indirectly forgiving this "inability to pay" and making taxpayers pay.
But what if we set up a system (for example I propose the real estate model
used by Lifestyles Unlimited as one way to help anyone develop 1 milliion to 5 or even 10 million in wealth
in the shortest amount of time
Lifestyles Unlimited - The education and mentor group for real estate investors
so that it IS POSSIBLE for any person, even incapacitated if they have help from family,
to invest money so they COULD pay off million dollar fines if that was the price tag put on premeditated murder.
Wouldn't people look at what they COULD be doing to become financially viable
if you were going to do that much work to raise millions of dollars?
Why do that work to pay off fines for crimes, when you could have done that work to keep that wealth
for yourself and your own family.
The impact could be on multiple levels, for the purpose of PREVENTION
even though it is proposed for RESTITUTION. When you look at the work and
costs it would take, clearly we would need to invest in prevention as more reasonable.
We aren't looking at the costs, because we don't expect anyone to be able to pay.
Well what if we could?
What all have we been "forgiving" and dumping on the public to pay for?
How many billions per year has the criminal justice system cost us that we don't think about.
when we could be COLLECTING instead of paying triple for crimes committed by others charged to public expense?