But again, this is where personal responsibility and good parenting come into play. My son can't sneak any of my cigarettes, beer or herion out to use.......because I don't have any. He has been raised in an environment where he has been taught what those things can do to you and has a life example to follow. He's my son, I'm his dad. What he does, who he does it with and where he goes is my business. Period, end of story. He is 17.5, an honors student in his senior year and just made Eagle Scout less than a month ago. He comes home everyday shaking his head and laughing about this kid or that kid who came to school drunk or high. He thinks they are idiots. He was given a good example and he has been exposed to the bad examples and he has come away from it with a personal decision of how he wants to live his life. He doesn't want to party, get high and flip burgers the rest of his life. He wants to take his scholarship and study engineering and live a lifestyle as good or better than his parents.
There is no reason that what happened in my house can't happen in others. But it takes a committment to good parenting and personal responsibility and providing the right kind of example. Not everyone else does that....and that is why I volunteer my time in Scouting to hopefully make a positive difference in other kid's lives as well. I can do that regardless of what the government deems legal or illegal to sell.
I really don't want people to take away from this that I think I'm better than anyone else or that I think I have all the answers. Life is a series of choices and we can ultimately only make those choices for ourselves. I can do all I've done and five years from now my son could become an addict. I don't think that will happen and I like to think that it is because I did it right. I really don't need the government limiting our freedom of choice to do my job as a parent.
I applaude you raising your son in a positive environment, but sometimes thats not enough. My brother is a heroin addict and we were raised in the same home, my father was not a drug addict, he did smoke and drink but never did drugs or had it in the home. But, in high school my brother was a big pothead and than later got into heroin, he said he could control it but he could not, one day my father came home and found that he sold everything in the house, fridge, coaches, beds, washers, etc EVERYTHING, to payback the credit he owed his drug dealer. Me and my brother are total opposites, I served 7 years in the Military and now hold a good job with the government, my brother dropped out of high school to do drugs, joined the Army but was sent back home in basic training because he tested positive for cocaine on the drug test, and is now serving time in Wasco State Penn in California for domestic violence, drug possession and various parole violations. Sometimes providing a good home is not enough.