I would tend to agree that courts are probably not the best venue for this issue, at this time. Eventually, it will be. The courts do not exist in a social vacuum.
I do understand equal protection and it is obvious to me that it is not being applied equally. However, the law also does not exist in a vacuum. Laws which reach beyond the willingness of the society are simply not viable. Which is why we are seeing those laws change now but did not see them change a couple of decades ago. We will eventually reach the point where the states which prohibit SSM will be in the minority and that is when I expect we will see a final move by the courts to complete the process. Just as happened with interracial marriage.
I've said for a number of years now that the Prop 8 challenge, IMHO, was a tactical mistake in it's attempt to reach a strategic goal. Take for example Prop 8 (California, 2008) and Question 1 (Maine, 2009). In both cases Same-sex Civil Marriage lost at the polls, but the reaction and plan to repeal took two separate courses. Many at the time cautioned the pro-marriage equality supporters that the demonstrations and reactions to Prop 8 in the weeks following it's passage would have a negative impact. There was a split in the supporters on how to proceed - some felt that the court challenge was the way to go, other cautioned against that and instead recommended working toward a repeal.
The Prop 8 challenge in the courts was a roll of the dice and it was known ahead of time that ultimately and legal challenge was going to take years, which has been true. Prop 8 was passed in November 2008 and it is now before the SCOTUS and it's 2013. But even then, a ruling for Prop 8 at the SCOTUS level, would have devastating impact for the marriage equality movement for years and years, at least a generation. As the application of upholding Prop 8 by the SCOTUS would mean they would justify all States that had barred equal treatment under the law for same-sex couples. On the other side of the coin, even if Prop 8 were overturned, there would be negative reaction from the public (in a lot of circles) with the cry of "activist judges". Many though counseled to refrain from taking the court challenge route and look to the future and to repeal Prop 8 at the ballot box in 2010 or 2012. Their voice was drowned out in the demonstrations and in the court challenge.
Now take Question 1 in Maine, passed in 2009. Both it and Prop 8 passed by very narrow margins. The marriage equality supporters though didn't hold large protests (not that there are enough people in Maine to hold one anyway

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. But what they did was accept the will of the people with honor, not "accept" as agree, but accept as in the process functioned correctly. What they did do then is start a grassroots campaign of conversations throughout the State to change the minds of those that were willing to listen so that they understood the impact of their vote. As a result, 3 years later the repeal of Question 1 was again on the ballot and marriage equality is now a reality in Maine.
I use the term "political capital" to describe the degree of positive impact. The political capital of repealing Prop 8 in the same way that Question 1 was repealed would have been politically HUGE in terms of overall perception. California has the largest state population of any state, passage of Same-sex Civil Marriage there at the ballot box would have expanded it in one fell swoop to over 10% of the population of the United States. Doing it by initiative would have had a long lasting positive impact. Doing it through the courts will only increase resentment by those who oppose marriage equality with more cries of "activist judges".
Not saying there wouldn't have been a point in the future when a court challenge might not have been more productive, I just don't see it as producing the desired results. Remember the first anti-miscegenation law was overturned by the CA Supreme Court in (IIRC) 1948, but it wasn't until 19 years later that the SCOTUS finally drove the last nail, but only after the number of states with anti-miscegenation had dropped to around 16.
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