I wouldn't go thinking it's the norm. I don't mind when people say merry christmas. I love looking at Christmas decorations. And if I know someone celebrates Christmas, I have no problem wishing them a 'merry christmas'. (I even spend christmas day every year with my cousin and her family who do celebrate the holiday. but to me, someone wishing me a merry christmas, while pleasant enough, also means the person is oblivious to the fact that not everyone celebrates their holiday. I would think you'd find it strange if I ran around saying "Happy Chanukah" to Christians or Muslims, no?
I like it when jewish people wish me a happy Chanukah, it makes me feel like they are extending their belief system to me and trying to include me in their celebration. Then Again I like it when people wish me a merry christmas too so I may be a bad example.
Bill-O starts this crap every year...
MERRY CHRISTMAS FROM THE ACLU (?!!!)
Fighting a Fictional War on Christmas
Every year at about this time, the ACLU begins receiving scores of Christmas cards, generally unsigned, almost always without return addresses. Many are simple and nice. But some call on us to have a "Merry Christmas--whether you like it or not!" and similar not-in-the-spirit-of-the-season wishes.
We welcome all cards and well wishes! Many of our staff members are practicing Christians and celebrate a religious Christmas. Also, our organization was founded to protect, among other liberties, the free exercise of religion. Although some claim that the ACLU is anti-Christian, the truth is quite the opposite: the ACLU has always stood up for the rights of all of us to practice our religion freely, including Christians.
Some members of the public may be surprised or confused by this. It is no wonder, given the misinformation out there.
An example: A few Decembers ago, a group called Public Advocate for the United States (self-described "defenders of America's traditional family values") sent some Christmas carolers over to sing in front of the ACLU offices in Washington, D.C.
They carried signs reading "Merry Christmas" and "Please Don't Sue Us!", assuming, it would seem, that they would be met with a hostile response.
To the contrary, it was with some excitement that the staff went outside and joined in the singing and brought cookies and warm drinks--as is traditional--to share with the carolers. In the Fox News broadcast of the event, however, there were close-ups of the Public Advocate carolers, but no footage of the ACLU participants. The story was broadcast on Fox's segment, "War Against Christmas," and the only mention of the ACLU was the anchor intoning, "We believe the ACLU heard the message loud and clear, but they don't care."
Sadly, the non-existent "War on Christmas" is in reality a cynical rallying cry for some fringe groups seeking attention.
In a Salon interview ("How the secular humanist grinch didn't steal Christmas"), Chip Berlet, a senior analyst at Political Research Associates, "one of the foremost experts on the religious right," says, "You have a dynamic here, where you have the Christian right hysterically overrepresenting the problem, and then anecdotally you have some towns where lawyers restrict any kind of display or representation of religion, which is equally absurd. It's a closed loop. In that dynamic, neither the secular humanists or the ACLU are playing a role."
In other words, the extremist groups have invented their own nightmare, and then feed off its effects.
Of course, meaningful freedom of religion is possible only because of a separation between government and religion. So, this Christmas, we ask those who wish a war in the name of Christmas to put down arms. Instead, why not take up these few simple guidelines for respecting the interdependent principles of freedom of religion and separation of church and state:
* Christmas displays, including nativity scenes, are perfectly acceptable at homes and churches. This religious expression is a valued and protected part of the First Amendment rights guaranteed to all citizens.
* Governments should not be in the business of endorsing religious displays. Religion thrives best when government stays out of deciding which holidays and religions to promote. Religion belongs where it prospers best: with individuals, families, and religious communities.
Lastly, as a seasonal greeting to all Christians: Merry Christmas from the ACLU! And for nonbelievers and believers in all other traditions: Thank you for enriching our world!
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