http://www.azcentral.com/ic/pdf/arias-april2-transcript-excerpt.pdf
I don't know if you had a chance to read this, but this cracked me up, and yes, he was a douche to JW.
MR. MARTINEZ: But the thing is that if
Ms. Willmott and I were married, I certainly would say I
F'g want to kill myself. That doesn't mean I want to kill
myself. It just means there's a bad relationship and I
want you to leave me alone.
MS. WILLMOTT: Judge, just for the record, I
think that that was an insult because he's trying to say
that if he and I were married --
MR. MARTINEZ: That was a compliment, bad joke.
MS. WILLMOTT: I don't see it as either. But at
any point --
THE COURT: All right. Let's move past that