Yeah. Because you care about perception. We're saying the same thing. You're concerned with pageantry. It doesn't matter what we're debating, whether women should have control over their own reproductive organs, whether we should name schools after people who fought to keep Black people as slaves, whether or not we can talk about LGTBQ issues in classrooms, or whether we should teach that slaves learned useful skills, so long as we're calling the other people on the other side of that debate
good sir and
gentle madam from such and such, all is well.