It is hard but I will try to not separate the points.
When you say you are addressing the anomalies…you aren’t really because in most of the examples, the positions you say leftists take are either inaccurate or are not an issue with a single opinion (as in there may be a diversity of opinions among the left on the issue)
On valuing children, the Right places the greatest the value to pre-birth. Once born the value diminishes and becomes conditional. The Left believes that the best home is one where the parent or parents love and care for the child and the composition of the family is irrelevant to a nurturing environment. Even a family with two parents (the working poor) still find themselves in need and though it is not as frequent as single parent families, neither is it rare. Unless there is abuse, I (as a leftist) feel we should do our best to ensure the child is in a loving environment and that they have whatever assistance they might need to raise the child.
On your third paragraph, I think both the Right and the Left want the same end result but disagree on how to get there. You want to change the situation that leads to children going hungry, and so do I, but I also want take care of what is in front of us, children who need help now.
On this statement:
The Left supports the traditional family the same as any other. I see a family as a family regardless of its components. On promoting…if I view all family structures as inherently equal, then why would I need to promote any one type? The metric we use should be the child itself and how it’s doing in each situation, so it’s very individual. Ideally, I agree a child should have two parents but they don’t biological or opposite sex. But that is not always possible and a single parent can do a great job raising a child.
The innocence of children, as a concept, is problematic to defend because defining it is problematic. Kids today have access to far more on the internet then they ever will through a school library. Kids go to school with other kids who have same sex parents. Kids are going to see men dressed as women. They will also see women scantily clad, posing provocatively, cheerleading at football games. They may also see or participate in exhibitions where little girls are heavily made up and taught to strike sexually provocative positions. The message coming out of this is is at best, highly inconsistent. I think, from the left point of view, we see it this way. Tone it performances down to an age appropriate level, if public and let the parents decide without demonizing an entire group of people.
On the issue of trans women in sports, I wasn’t intentionally (or “meticulously “) avoiding it. It’s topic where the Left is divided, there isn’t a unified opinion and the majority, even though supportive of trans rights, feel sports should be determined by one’s gender at birth.
I too appreciate your civility and love you as a friend