Where are these 'wars' happening? How long have these same 'areas' been at war? Is it as long as islam has been present?
You need to look at specific areas and periods of history to evaluate that. To simply assume that IF it's been as long as Islam is present, and THEREFORE Islam is the cause, is itself a logical fallacy.
Most of those regions have long histories of alternating periods of empire building, stability, strife and conquoring by foreign powers prededing Islam, a relative new-comer. You also had various Islamic empires that ruled over long periods of stability and prosperity as well as periods of conflict ,such as Moghul and Ottoman. There seems little difference between them and non-Islamic empires in that regard.
If you want to look at commonalities in a broad way - many of those regions undergoing chronic instability and ethnic or religious conflict were also regions under former colonial rule enclosed by borders drawn to satisfy foreign powers, not ethnic realities. Iraq is a good example of just that.
What does it take for you to see that when muslims are ruling, there is violence, intimidation, and suppression of the individual spirit? "Each" muslim seeks their own freedon, but will not stand up to those in power. The religion mixed with the law, make it punishable to disagree with those in power. These people in these countries are subjugated and live in terror for their families, and themselves. How can they ever grow, if we do nothing to break this cycle?
What it "takes" are aguements that are logical, and address the complexities of history, culture, religion, geography and modern reality - not just broad and often unsupported generalizations.
You state: "When Muslims are ruling there is violence, intimidation, and suppression of the individual spirit"
The problem is three-fold.
It is a problem of mixing religion and government - societies and laws based on religious doctrine rather than secular law. I don't think I can find any examples of theocratic societies either existing or, waiting in the wings in hopes of fruition - that do not tend towards the most fundamentalist and intolerant interpretations of their religion and that includes Christianity who's more fundamentalist sects believe in a literal Kingdom of God on earth.
...and that brings us to the second problem - extremism, which when it comes to religions tends to be fundamentalist. Extremism in Islam is the spreading of the more puritanical sect of Islam - Wahhabi, which is what you see in Saudi Arabia. This sort of extremism is not unique to Islam, but many Islamic countries lack the democratic foundations and principles (which are largely secular) that characterize many countries of the west and those principles allow us to keep our government and laws independent of our religious leaders' desires.
...and lastly, anytime you have a fundamentalist rule (whether it's religiously or politicaly fundamentalist) - you have violence, intimidation, and suppression of the individual spirit. Look at apartheid South Africa, Zimbabwe then and now, Iran, Soviet Union, and others.
The reason that I used "selectively", is because that when Christians today do an extremists act, other Christians will denounce them or even stop them. That is not so in the muslim faith. If a person in your muslim family or your community does a horrible crime, you do not denounce him, you protect him. That just doesn't happen that much (I am sure you can find a few demonstrations in the last century) in the Christian faith. It is common in the muslim faith.
That's a myth perpetrated by a media that chooses not to report such denunciations and, it's somewhat hypocritical because Christians and Jews can be as spotty as Muslims in their denunciations of violence. Anti-abortion violence, for example or the massacre of Bosnian Muslims by the Christian Bosnian Serbs
For some reason, there is this expectation that all Muslims must denounce all acts of violence perpetrated by one of their own. There is no such similar expectation upon the Jew as a whole or the Christian as a whole. Because this does not occur and make it into the MSM, denounciations are largely ignored.
Using 'logic': if countries that have large muslim population are typically at war, and when a population of mulims moves into a relatively peaceful country and then that country starts having trouble, it just might be the 'faith' causing the problems. If this can be demonstrated, repeatedly over the fourteen hundred years the muslim faith has been in existence, rationally, there must be some questions asked.
That isn't logic, it's a fallacy and not everything is connected or causal in the way you seem to think.
When countries are at war, refugee problems occur and large numbers of people are forced to flee and relocate. That in itself is destabilizing to the countries surrounding them who have to absorb the populations and who very likely may have ethnic conflicts of their own that are exacerbated by the refugee crisis for example: Ethiopia, Eritrea, Rwanda, Burundi, the Congo, Somalia. Another example would be the (many) Balkan conflicts.
When a complex situation has a simple answer (ie - the problem is Islam) - it's usually wrong.
The only accurate statement you made is: there must be some questions asked. I agree. But I would hope when you look for answers you look further than the "simple" answers that seem so "obvious".
Questions such as - is it Islam? (strangely, Muslims live peacefully and productively in such countries as the U.S., Canada, Australia, Mali (Sufi and Sunni), Gambia (predominately Sufi) and Bangladesh among many. Since you also try to tie in your conclusion with history, then your case is even weaker because if you are going to go through 1400 or more years of history there is significant Christian conflict, conquest, bloodshed, and intolerance that can not all be laid at the feet of Islam. How do you explain that? How do you explain other questions like conflicts that have in common a heritage of colonialism? How do you account for all the political instability, a history of dictatorial governmence - caused by Islam? If so, why do we see the same things in non-Islamic African countries? South America?
Defending 'islam', does nothing but perpetuate violence.
If you surround muslims with a strong force, and tell them to behave, suddenly, they will be the most peaceful people on earth. Show one sign of weakness and they will try to rule you. There is no peace for muslims, go into any community and see for yourself. It is a faith of intimidation and supression (it is perfectly understandable why the far, far left would embrace the followers).
You call that "logical"? Sounds like "emotional" to me.
Supporting islam is like supporting domestic violence.
No. Supporting extremism is like supporting domestic violence, but I wouldn't expect you to understand those distinctions.