"Also, I note that you continue to ignore my question regarding the status of moslem women as property and the "right" of a husband to beat his wife. So I ask you once again - how can you reconcile yourself to the status of chattel?"
Marriage is a very important activity that fullfills one half of our religion. Each spouse is supposed to treat each other with the utmost respect and honor. When I married my husband, I married a man that I loved, cared for, and entrusted my life with. I know that my husband the person I love more than anything in this world will take care of me. If my husband does not fullfill his duty I have every right in my religion to divorce him with no reprucussions from Allah. My husband has been ordered by Allah to take care of me.
In regards to beating the wife. There are situations in which a man can hit his wife, but lightly. First, it must be because the wife is doing something that is against Islam (this does not count if the woman is not muslim). Second, the husband must have told her verbally numerous times that he disaproves of her actions and that they are not pleasing to Allah. Third, if the wife still does not stop after repeated warnings that she is breaking the rules of Islam the husband must leave her at night and sleep in another room of the house leaving the wife in bed alone by herself. If after the husband has slept alone for a few days and the wife still insists on disobeying the the rules of Allah then the husband has the right to hit her lightly. He is not supposed to hit her in the face and he is not supposed to leave any bruises or scratches or any marks whatsoever on her body.
Now, the reasoning that I see behind this and why as a woman have no problem accepting it. First, I love my husband dearly, and I believe if you marry someone you better be able to trust them with your life. I know whatever my husband tells me is for my own good. If I am stubborn enough to disobey the laws of Islam to actually say No to my husband all the time that is bad. If I then am so stuck in doing something sinful that I would be willing to give up my time with the man I love most I feel that my husband could do nothing more. He tried to stop me verbally, and then emotionally...his last option is to stop me physically.
Yes, people do not follow these rules, but wife beating is in all parts of the world. It made me sick to look at the woman from Saudi Arabia, but I am also proud of her. She stood up for Islam and spoke out against a topic that has been kept in the dark and has been ignored for a long time by many Muslims. What happened to her is not condoned within the Islamic laws. Like I said...lightly and no marks.
Anyway, I know not everyone is going to agree with this, but I know I would much rather get a small slap from my husband instead of spend an extra day in hell.