Most people here, even M.D. and Boss have some awareness of where they are talking past people.
You know Emily, I am getting a little tired of you constantly lumping me in with MD and pretending we are both doing the same thing here. MD made an argument and I agreed with his argument but pointed out why I didn't believe his argument was bulletproof. He then began a vicious campaign of attack on me, both personally and intellectually, and that attack has continued on and on. I have refrained from attacking him or anyone else for their beliefs, but I have responded to his stubborn insistence that his points are unassailable and his argument is empirical.
Now you are entitled to your own opinion but you are pissing me off by comparing me (constantly) with MD. We're simply NOT doing the same thing here, I am NOT talking past anyone. If something I've said has gone past you, please let me know and I will explain it in greater detail. MD and Justin deserve to be lumped together, as they have consistently been on the same page, using the same tactics of debate, making the same arguments over and over, and hurling ad hominem insults left and right.
Don't lump me in with MD, the only reason there is dialogue happening between us is because I refuse to let the punk get away with telling me I am wrong in my beliefs and he is right in his. I don't need any lessons in diplomacy or wise words on how to reach consensus. You need to be preaching that to MD and Justin, not me.
No, the only comparison I made is that you are not forgiving each other but being negative towards each other.
BreezeWood is being negative and rejecting not accepting of M.D.
Hollie is being negative and rejecting and not accepting of M.D.
My point is if we are going to unpeel those layers of rejection that M.D. hides behind
we cannot be piling on more layers of the same.
That's more and more layers to forgive and undo.
Hollie keeps posting the same things also: telling M.D. to quit copying and pasting, quit saying the same things.
Telling him the same thing isn't working.
But she can't help it because she doesn't know there is a solution
so cannot steer and redirect M.D. there without such a concept of where he does need to expand his focus.
I have a sense of that, but can only guess at it, offer ideas and try to see what works.
Boss maybe the reason I focus on you
is that you have a better chance of coming up with a way to explain to M.D.
what can be done differently instead of criticizing the same thing over and over
and wonder why M.D. keeps insisting the same things over and over.
If we want different answers out of M.D.
we have to ask different questions how to get there.
Do you agree that you and Hollie keep saying no no no
and it's not specific enough to change how M.D. responds.
Can we try different things?
My last post was asking both M.D. and Justin Davis
what was THEIR process for coming to an understanding of God?
the meaning of Jesus Christianity and the Bible?
Boss, would you like to start first?
If you can explain how you came to your understanding,
and if it was or was not through discussion of TAG points,
maybe we can explain why this TAG isn't working.
It seems to me that even M.D. and Justin came to their
understanding FIRST, and THEN they summarized it afterwards using TAG.
So it is some kind of process AFTER understanding
but it is not necessarily appropriate for explaining BEFORE people reach an understanding.
Boss should we just come out and ASK
M.D. and Justin that if they had ever been in a state of not understanding God in the past,
wouldn't they not understand TAG either. And it's only because they already understand God
that it makes sense to them.
So one group is objecting because they are not starting in that same place, but maybe
they are where people like Justin or M.D. were BEFORE they understood what God means
and BEFORE they would ever have understood TAG either!
And another group is objecting because we see this gap,
and/or can explain it logistically where the leap is coming from.
Let me know if you have ideas.
If you are working to RESOLVE the issue then you would be different.
If you are just rejecting and trying to prove the other wrong, that is where I'm saying this is getting mutually stuck.
Just trying to prove the other is wrong instead of trying to correct where the disconnects are happening
and agree on a better way!
Can you help explain this to M.D. and/or Justin?
I think Justin may get it before M.D. who is so caught up on this track he's on,
he's not looking at the process around it. But maybe Justin can see both,
see both what M.D. is focused on and see the paths and process as well that doesn't negate it
but needs to be taken into account when working with different people and their own paths and process.
Boss I don't think Hollie is a process person.
Can you see both? Can you see both the end result that M.D. is trying to get to, an agreement on God,
and can you see where his process and everyone else can come to some understanding?
I am just posting suggestions, and seeing if anything rings a bell, helps come up with insights
so we can make a connection somewhere between MD thought process and everyone else.
I can't find how to connect with BreezeWood either, so I am guessing at that
and throwing feelers out, trying to find where we are missing each other or where we might connect.
You BreezeWood and M.D. all seem in the business of just saying
"no you are wrong" to each other and not trying to find ways to fix it.
of all these people, Boss, I think you can come up with creative
new angles to try to make a better connection with BW and MD.
They don't seem to see how all these different ways are part of a process.
BW rejects the Christian God ABSOLUTELY and now it looks like prayer is thrown in as well.
MD rejects relative views and even the process of asking and questioning is "refuting God".
How can we build a process around that include these people and their paths
to show how it works?