Is it dangerous for a girl to sleep around a lot?

[TheProgressivePatriot]

Liberals are always trying to reinvent the wheel.


A woman sleeping around a lot, is going to be judged. People might talk shit about it, and claim they are not judging her, but they will be.

Yes they are judged, while men get away with all sorts of shit and lauded for it as real men. I know. I am a man who has been around

 

[TheProgressivePatriot]

Like that matters.

Why would it not matter? Do you hold women to a different standard? Apparently so.

 

[surada]

Yes, well paying job.

Good.

 

[TheProgressivePatriot]

Apples to oranges. The biologically predetermined psychology, and the unavoidable fall out from these behaviors couldn't be more divergent.

Really? Please explain

 

[RetiredGySgt]

Do you judge men's sexual lifestyles as harshly?

I do.

 

[Confederate Soldier]

Do you judge men's sexual lifestyles as harshly?

Don't pull the sexist card buddy, not going to work.


I have a buddy, that I like to call a meathead. He thinks with his dick, and not with his brain. He has slept around with any chick that will go along with it, and you know what's wrong with his life? He's stuck in a shotgun marriage, with a girl he can't stand, because he got her pregnant. He is now taking Viagra because now he's having troubles getting an erection. He's 22. He's been living a fast and loose life since he was 16. I remind him every time he opens up his mouth to complain, that he did this to himself.

 

[Correll]

Yes they are judged, while men get away with all sorts of shit and lauded for it as real men. I know. I am a man who has been around

In my circle(s) man whores were not "lauded for it". We thought it was kind of sleazy they way they preyed on vulnerable women.

 

[TheProgressivePatriot]

No "high value" man whom has accrued wealth, and standing is going to write a check against some flake, dozens of other dudes have fucked. Because he doesn't have to...

Do you think that a "high value" woman would " write a check" ( whatever the hell that means") against some rolling stone who has fucked dozend of women? Or are the rules and standards different somehow

 

[Correll]

Why would it not matter? Do you hold women to a different standard? Apparently so.

Men and women are different. Behavior that a man would walk away from, without... being damaged goods, would destroy a woman.


That is the reality of the situation. YO don't like it? Take it up with God.

 

[emilseine]

Has anyone seen Vanilla Sky? Could you see how she developed feelings for him even though for him it was just sex? Do you like Tom Cruise?

 

[OhPleaseJustQuit]

Oh get real! There's nothing wrong with a woman having many partners. It's healthy and you know it. Remember free love in the 60s?

Your mind is made up. Why did you ask?

 

[TheProgressivePatriot]

Don't pull the sexist card buddy, not going to work.


I have a buddy, that I like to call a meathead. He thinks with his dick, and not with his brain. He has slept around with any chick that will go along with it, and you know what's wrong with his life? He's stuck in a shotgun marriage, with a girl he can't stand, because he got her pregnant. He is now taking Viagra because now he's having troubles getting an erection. He's 22. He's been living a fast and loose life since he was 16. I remind him every time he opens up his mouth to complain, that he did this to himself.

So I take that to mean that you disapprove of men fucking around as well. Good. But I will submit to you that maybe neither women nor men should be judged so harshly about sexual lifestyles. Nonmonogamy works for some and not others. Some go about responibly and others fuck up and get into trouble like your friend .

 

[Vastator]

Really? Please explain

That's easy. Men prefer for a lifelong partner, and mother of their offspring; more demure, chaste, and virginal if at all possible women. Their ability to pair bond is strongest, and the subsequent loyalty is more likely, which prevents the man from getting cuckolded, IE dumping his resources into another mans child. It's been this way since the dawn of time. These aren't just hokey conventions. They are biological imperatives that have proven to be successful mating strategies.
Conversely women being the social creatures that they are are subject to the whims of their peers. So a man who sleeps around a lot has been judged by her peers as being a high value, or high status man. Which in turn makes her assessment of said man increase in value. If she can secure this man all her peers want, she increases her own value amongst her peers. And as for the schlub who doesn't "sleep around", or have the bona fides of a high body count; women laugh him out of the room, and call them "Incel", or some such. Because to prove to a given woman that you're worth having, her peer group has to determine you valuable as well.

Its been this way since the dawn of time. the fact that i have to explain this to you, tells us that whatever mentor figure you had growing up, failed you miserably...

 

[Correll]

Has anyone seen Vanilla Sky? Could you see how she developed feelings for him even though for him it was just sex? Do you like Tom Cruise?

Taking relationship cues from Hollywood, is a dangerous game.


That being said, yes, a woman can develop feelings, even if she promises not too.


Recall how well that turned out for everyone involved btw.

 

[TheProgressivePatriot]

In my circle(s) man whores were not "lauded for it". We thought it was kind of sleazy they way they preyed on vulnerable women.

I am not talking about men preying on vunerable women. I am talking about the way in which mens sexual behavior is viewed as opposed to the way women's behavior is viewed.

You seem to have a knack of distorting what I say just enough to give you cover and avoid the actual issue and point that I made

 

[Confederate Soldier]

So I take that to mean that you disapprove of men fucking around as well. Good. But I will submit to you that maybe neither women nor men should be judged so harshly about sexual lifestyles. Nonmonogamy works for some and not others. Some go about responibly and others fuck up and get into trouble like your friend .

But it's so preventable. It's called responsibility. Parenting sucks, if the kids never were taught that actions lead to consequences.

 

[Vastator]

In my circle(s) man whores were not "lauded for it". We thought it was kind of sleazy they way they preyed on vulnerable women.

Yeah... I bet they were real victims... Lol!!!

 

[Correll]

That's easy. Men prefer for a lifelong partner, and mother of their offspring; more demure, chaste, and virginal if at all possible women. Their ability to pair bond is strongest, and the subsequent loyalty is more likely, which prevents the man from getting cuckolded, IE dumping his resources into another mans child. It's been this way since the dawn of time. These aren't just hokey conventions. They are biological imperatives that have proven to be successful mating strategies.
Conversely women being the social creatures that they are are subject to the whims of their peers. So a man who sleeps around a lot has been judged by her peers as being a high value, or high status man. Which in turn makes her assessment of said man increase in value. If she can secure this man all her peers want, she increases her own value amongst her peers. And as for the schlub who doesn't "sleep around", or have the bona fides of a high body count; women laugh him out of the room, and call them "Incel", or some such. Because to prove to a given woman that you're worth having, her peer group has to determine you valuable as well.

Its been this way since the dawn of time. the fact that i have to explain this to you, tells us that whatever mentor figure you had growing up, failed you miserably...

I have noticed women paying me more attention, when I am in a relationship.


I will never forget the TWO times women flirted with me, at the book store.

It was the weekend after I proposed, and teh NEXT WEEKEND.

It was like they somehow just knew.

 

[Correll]

I am not talking about men preying on vunerable women. I am talking about the way in which mens sexual behavior is viewed as opposed to the way women's behavior is viewed.

You seem to have a knack of distorting what I say just enough to give you cover and avoid the actual issue and point that I made

And I'm responding telling you how the people in my circle looked at such men.

 

[Correll]

Yeah... I bet they were real victims... Lol!!!

I wouldn't go that far. And we didn't, even back in the day. But they were male sleezes.