I take that back, I and my family were personally denied service in a restaurant back in 1992. We had traveled to Nashville TN for vacation and driven out to Memphis and down into Mississippi to see the country. In Mississippi, first town south of the TN border, I can't recall the name we stopped at a restaurant for a late lunch. We entered the restaurant, it was very dark and sat down and waited.
After a few minutes, a waitress yelled at us, "Can I help you?". She didn't come to the table she hollered across the room and I said we wanted some lunch. Well, she basically told us we should go to the White side of town for lunch. Believe me, I got the hint and was somewhat saddened by the incident. I would have enjoyed having a few minutes to talk with her. I told her we were from California and didn't know... and left. She was by no means rude, but the message was clear, we did not belong in that area. I have always written that off as a friendly warning from her and like I said, I wish that I had had the opportunity to talk with her and the people in the restaurant.
Immie
Hanging with people of your own kind may be considered racism to some extent and I agree that it happened when I was there, but hanging out with your friends and people like you, is not the same as being denied access to other peoples or the places that they eat at, IMHO.
Immie
So tell me, why did you leave, because there was a sign that said no whites? And why didn't you stay?
Was it discrimination? Did you feel like your civil rights had been denied or offended?
Or did you just feel like they were idiots and take your business and money elsewhere?
I left because I didn't feel safe.
The way she said it, was more or less like a warning. Like, "you don't belong in this restaurant and if you don't leave I'm not responsible for your safety". I had two little girls with me, I think I said it was 1992, it had to be earlier than that now that I think about as my youngest daughter was less than two and she was born in 1987.
Were my rights violated? I'd have to say in some respect, yes, but I think she would have served us if we had insisted on it. I didn't feel like they were idiots. I felt like maybe I was a little naive not realizing that there is still racial tension in the South even in the late 1980's.
As for a sign like you mentioned, I don't know if there was a sign. The room was very dark almost like a bar.
Immie