I'm Finally Getting Married

My fiancee and I plan on getting married next Spring. We both have good careers and are very compatible. We share the same views in politics and enjoy sporting events, good music and fine dining. At 34 I feel I'm ready to settle down after sowing my wild oats.
Congrats. Therer's a lot to be said about entering marriage when each has already been independent and successful.
 
My fiancee and I plan on getting married next Spring. We both have good careers and are very compatible. We share the same views in politics and enjoy sporting events, good music and fine dining. At 34 I feel I'm ready to settle down after sowing my wild oats.
I hope u beat the odds! JK congrats
 
I don't think you have, based on your posting, what is necessary to succeed at being a good husband

I hope I am wrong for her sake.
old man trolling.webp
 
Congratulations, at least you have the funds to. Don't take that for granted as my man and I are currently struggling a whole lot financially so unfortunately I don't know when we'll be able to get married but I sure am happy for you and I sure hope that you treat her like a queen and she treats you like royalty as well. 😊
 
And yes I can't help but grow fond of a lot of you on here. You're more like my online family. Mostly Trump supporters but occasionally I'll find a good person who isn't. John Edgar Slow Horses, Slade3200, and some eagle guy are pretty nice when we aren't talking about politics. 🙂 (Oh and Slade is a pretty good debater too)
 
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Oh and Harpy Eagle, that was the other guy where I like him I just don't like his politics. Oh and btw, I forgot to mention that Slade3200 has made some political points before, and I know how to admit when I'm wrong. The great part is so can he as nobody can be right all the time. 😊 (Sorry for derailing your thread though Blaster.)
 
My fiancee and I plan on getting married next Spring. We both have good careers and are very compatible. We share the same views in politics and enjoy sporting events, good music and fine dining. At 34 I feel I'm ready to settle down after sowing my wild oats.

You will have problems. Maybe not at first but you will a year or so in. And they will persist a few years. Being married and living with someone changes you and your situation, it's not necessarily bad but it will be different. But if you two love each other really it will work out over time but it takes adjustment and if you realize that going in that you realize you'll have problems is makes it easier to understand why.

Unless you're one of a few instances you're sex life is going to change after a couple years. If you fill a jar with jelly beans and take one out every time you bang it will never be empty. Excitement, newness, and anticipation will disappear after a while as you become used to each other in every possible way. You can only be excited for so long, it's unrealistic to think it never ends.

You're 34 so remember you're still growing and your mentality will change and don't blame your marriage on it. I'm 48 I'm still changing as I age. You both will continue to change.

That's all the advice I can give. I've only been married once. We dated 2 years, lived together 2 years and been married 9 years.

But good luck to you, just be realistic and you'll be fine
 
ah jeez....you really do know how to pluck the strings of old black hearts Blaster.......

best wishes.....
~S~
 
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