I don't like you.
But frankly there was nothing wrong with your first post that he said it didn't make sense. If I may, feel free to correct me.
State/Federal government should be able to sanction unions. That is two people entering some sort of social contract that receives legal benefits.
Marriage is a sanctioned union. But marriage is also a religious construct that is wrongly supported by a government that has freedom of religion. Therefor I oppose, and I assume you do as well, any government sanctioning marriage. Unions between people yes... Marriages no.
Not quite.
I don't think government should use taxes to influence social policy. I see some advantages to the government setting up laws to protect the interests of children, but most marriage laws are historically built on the idea that women cannot provide for themselves without a man. The laws are a little more balanced now, but there really should be no financial support for either partner unless their are children involved.
As far as religion, I am a but of a heretic, I don't think the church should have any say in who gets married either. If a couple wants to say they are married, they are, and the church has no more business endorsing that than the state does. The only thing people need permission from the church for is to have a church wedding, which is more about social protocol than religion.
Its quite appropriate, and Constitutional, for governments to use tax incentives to influence social policy. As the majority in the
Healthcare Cases observed:
Congresss use of the Taxing Clause to encourage buying something is, by contrast, not new. Tax incentives already promote, for example, purchasing homes and professional educa-tions.
NFIB v. Sebelius (2012).
As with home ownership and professional educations, marriage whether same or opposite sex is perceived by government to be generally beneficial, and encourages marriage using certain taxing policies.
As for churches and other religious entities, they do indeed have the authority to say who is and is not married in accordance with their dogma. Private organization have the Constitutional right to freedom of assembly, and exclude whomever they wish who refuses to conform to that organizations tenets, customs, and established practices. See:
BSA v. Dale (2000).