I'd go back to schlepping golf bags at the country club before going on the dole.
What if you couldn't? What if you had become disabled? Or the recession was so bad, the golf course went belly up? OR...they found someone who would do it cheaper than you?
WHAT IF your last resort was: Take govt handouts, or, go hungry and homeless? What if your kids depended on which choice you made?
I know rhetoric and nonsense will follow. We all know the true answer.
Who said that people should shouldn't take welfare when they've exhausted all other avenues? It often means swallowing one's pride and doing it for the sake of the kids. Many put forth a serious effort to get off it as soon as possible.
The ones that scam the system are often those that work here illegally and get paid cash. They don't pay taxes or disclose their income when applying for welfare. The illegals often have several families living in one place to reduce expenses. Many that do file taxes for low wages end up with huge refunds- averaging $10,000 each. They claim a lot of children that probably don't exist, at least not in this country. It's a huge scam and hard to say how many even use their real name. Addresses that were checked out were found to be bogus. Yet, the government sends out millions every year in refunds with no questions asked.
I personally know people who knew they could rely on welfare and simply didn't plan for their future by graduating from high school or learning skills. Now they are up that creek without a paddle. For some, it's not the cushy life they thought, yet they are ill-prepared to do much else. It was their own choices that put them at a disadvantage in the job market.
Used to be that young people were constantly told to shape up or they'd face a bleak future. We can't pick up the slack for everyone who fails to contribute to their own welfare, by making good decisions and planning.
Now the economy is terrible and even the best qualified are back living with their parents. Shit happens.
Question is that when jobs start coming back, who will get the best ones? That would be the ones who are prepared to take the opportunities when they present themselves. There are still opportunities out there, but none that I know of will be much good to someone with no education and a police record. They could at least finish high school and get experience at a fast food place. Something. Even if a person is basically a good, honest person who has never been arrested, they need to have a resume that contains actual accomplishments, big and small.
I wouldn't want to live off welfare because it would be a miserable existence and I'd have no feeling of self worth. Even if disabled, I would hate it. So, as long as I have any say, I'll be wise and not do anything to make myself undesirable to employers. No guarantees, but so far it's worked like a charm and I've never gone without. I've had plenty of lean times, especially when I first started out, but I've got skills and can be quite personable. If needed, I'm ready to compete for jobs.
I have done my share of minimum wage work, but when the opportunity for advancement came, I was ready and qualified. You can work your way up from anywhere. Hamburger flippers at fast food places have wound up being regional managers. It's up to the individual to take initiative and have something going for themselves. It doesn't always mean smooth sailing, but it's a hell of a life raft and so many people could have been on different paths had they got a kick in the butt instead of being convinced they are victims who can't make it without govenment.
Honestly, at this point in my life, after paying increasing taxes for years, maybe I would feel fine about taking welfare for a limited time. It would be like some of my own money coming back to me.