Said1
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dmp said:I know Clay - it's weird...but she said it best:
Thanks for fixing the grammar and stuff. You could have taken it a step futher though, by explaining what is meant by "we", in the proper context of course!
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dmp said:I know Clay - it's weird...but she said it best:
The ClayTaurus said:I feel very strange telling someone to not feed a troll. What's happening to me?
Said1 said:Thanks for fixing the grammar and stuff. You could have taken it a step futher though, by explaining what is meant by "we", in the proper context of course!
Thanks for being "just about" to defend me! Knight in shining armor.roomy said:![]()
Good job you told him where to get off, I was just about to kick his head in for talking to you like that.He won't mess with you again in a hurry.
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MUWAHAHAHA...You will be assimilated! Resistance is futile!The ClayTaurus said:I feel very strange telling someone to not feed a troll. What's happening to me?
mom4 said:That's a long story... she had a HORRIBLE teacher last year. I was in communication with her AND the principal all year long. Basically, that's WHY they changed her grade, bc they thought that's what I wanted. NOOOOOO! I wanted to know what the material was BEFORE the tests, so that she could actually STUDY! Imagine that! But her teacher was too busy explaining to her 9 yo students why it was okay that she was unmarried and pregnant (not that any of the students needed to know ANYTHING about her personal life!!!) to remember to send home study sheets. And then there's the "no homework" policy at that school. Very frustrating situation. It's like pulling teeth to find out what goes on in these classrooms, and I kind of don't blame them bc I know a lot of parents would actually be satisfied with changing the kid's grade.
I ended up just looking up the 3rd grade standards and making up worksheets for her at home.
I understand and totally agree with this. My sister (not my baby sister; third one down, Barb) is a teacher. She was involved in a lawsuit bc certain parents wanted their child to be labelled as "special needs," and my sister evaluated the kid. He was normal. I KNOW parents can be jerks. I honestly try to be very fair with teachers, and am more inclined to take THEIR side if they say my child did something wrong. But this woman was just unworkable. Even the principal blew me off about her. I talked to the vice-principal about it, and she told me the principal just had too many complaints about the teacher. It wasn't just me. But they couldn't fire her bc of tenure.jasendorf said:My wife had one, and only one, of her 27 6th grade students fail the Ohio reading proficiency this past year. This kid missed 20 inconsecutive days of school, was constantly disruptive, the mother told my wife (with much pride I might add) that she restricted her son to ONLY 2 hours of video games a night... but when my wife presented her with the suggestion that her student retake the 6th grade (teachers in Ohio can only suggest that a student fail a grade... they cannot actually retain a student unless the parents agree) the mother went ballistic! Screamed to high heaven about the "liberal public schools" and how they failed her son and on and on and on... nevermind that my wife had 27 OTHER students who are ready for the 7th grade (including 4 inclusion students... it was my wife and the school that caused it. Now the school board is "re-examining" the "failure" of my wife... it's crap. She's taking a year off next year to see if she wants to continue teaching and to spend time with our 10-month old.
I can't vouch for the quality of your daughter's teacher. But, I know the frustration of lots of teachers who are tired of parents constantly coming in and second-guessing their professional judgement and skill and flying off the handle accusing them of everything from being commies to failures. I'm not saying that that is you... I'm saying that this is what makes them gunshy.
jasendorf said:My wife had one, and only one, of her 27 6th grade students fail the Ohio reading proficiency this past year. This kid missed 20 inconsecutive days of school, was constantly disruptive, the mother told my wife (with much pride I might add) that she restricted her son to ONLY 2 hours of video games a night... but when my wife presented her with the suggestion that her student retake the 6th grade (teachers in Ohio can only suggest that a student fail a grade... they cannot actually retain a student unless the parents agree) the mother went ballistic! Screamed to high heaven about the "liberal public schools" and how they failed her son and on and on and on... nevermind that my wife had 27 OTHER students who are ready for the 7th grade (including 4 inclusion students... it was my wife and the school that caused it. Now the school board is "re-examining" the "failure" of my wife... it's crap. She's taking a year off next year to see if she wants to continue teaching and to spend time with our 10-month old.
I can't vouch for the quality of your daughter's teacher. But, I know the frustration of lots of teachers who are tired of parents constantly coming in and second-guessing their professional judgement and skill and flying off the handle accusing them of everything from being commies to failures. I'm not saying that that is you... I'm saying that this is what makes them gunshy.
roomy said:Your wife must feel like such a failure having failed to teach this kid to the required standard? Is her job in jeapardy over it?
jasendorf said:I think Kathianne hit on some very solid points... but I think she's attributing them to the wrong people (at least as I'm aware of the situation in Ohio... I really can't vouch for Illinois).
Here in Ohio, we have state-wide proficiency tests at 4th and 6th grade... what goes on those tests is determined by a state board which issues a rubric. Most schools then create some way of making sure that all of their teachers hit upon all of the items in the rubric. My wife's school used a "pie chart thingy" where they would fill in the slices of the pie which were assigned to items on the rubric. We're talking 24-30 (not 100% sure the number and it varied from subject to subject) per subject. When my wife was teaching fourth grade, I was astounded to see "can tell the difference between acute, obtuse and right angles." In the fourth grade? I know I wasn't expected to know that in the fourth grade and I highly doubt there's anyone here my age or older who can say they were. My point is that, here in Ohio, it isn't the school boards or administrations or the **gasp** evil unions that are causing this... it's the state reacting (or over-reacting) to the NCLB rewrite of the ESEA.
I'll be more specific. I escaped from public schools to Andover. You can't make a bigger jump thean that. Andover's quality.jasendorf said:Yeah... because this is only happening in public schools:
roomy said:They could just fire your wife though as an example to the other useless teachers at her school.Maybe they could all do some extra training, it sounds like they need it.
What, you don't like when people mirror your style?jasendorf said:Sorry, but I'm going to choose to not feed the troll on this one.
roomy said:You would starve pretty quickly.You don't like it much when somebody plays dumber than you, do you?:duh3:
jasendorf said:But the whole point of this thread is that there has to be WINNERS and LOSERS... doesn't matter if it was one-MILLION DOLLARS!!! MUWHAHAHAH... oh, wait... that's Dr. Evil...
You've just exposed precisely why schools are going with multiple valedictorians and salutorians...
I agree Abbey. There should be 'one' best student, determined ahead of time by criteria all can access.Abbey Normal said:As the author of this thread, I will take the privilege of telling you the "whole point of it". It is absurd and demoralizing to the real top student to award ten different people the title of Valedictorian, when you can easily differentiate between them academically.
Mom's sister wasn't asking to be elevated above someone who was ahead of her academcially. She was understandably upset when the school changed the rules after awarding her the title, based on her higher achievement at the time the claculations werre made.
If you still claim not see this distinction, it will be clear to me that you are, as you've state delsewhere, just taking what you perceive as the anti-Republican side, regardless of logic or facts.
Btw, since you are nitpicking between rules and tradition, ad nauseum, I'll make it really simple: the "rule" was based on "tradition".