It's not the cake that he refused to make. It was the artwork/message on the cake that he does not do, because doing so would go against his conscience. Artists of any kind shouldn't be forced to create art that is contrary to their worldview.
Psst - you are talking about why, internal feelings. Which is different then discussion behavior (i.e. actions). Yes he refused to make a wedding cake - part of the normal goods and services his business provides - based on the sex composition of the couple.
I'm truly amazed that anyone would think otherwise. Perhaps a country like North Korea would be better for those of you who like forcing sincere people of faith. Here in the US we are supposed to be about liberty, not forcing people at the barrel of a gun.
Maybe you would be less amazed if you tried to understand two things. (1) Someone can discuss facts about the case - i.e. discuss what is vice what should be. (2) You should ask a person their opinion about "what should be" or attempt to learn what their opinion is before making an incorrect assumption and making yourself look uninformed.
My opinion of what "should be" is that the class of laws we refer to as "Public Accommodation" law should be repealed as they provide government (federal, state, and local) over reach into the private conduct of businesses in violation of their rights of property and free association. If such were to happen, then the religion of the shop owner becomes irrelevant. That in this information age market forces should determine if a business model will succeed or fail.
Public Accommodation laws should only apply to government entities and the performance of duties by government employees and limit the ability of government entities to purchase goods and services and to enter into contracts with private business entities that practice a discriminatory business model since they are funded by taxpayers.
That means the religious shop owner can refuse any service to gays.
The Muslim shop owner can refuse any service to those with service dogs.
The racist shop owner can refuse any service to blacks.
The redneck shop owner can refuse any service to Mexicans.
The sexist shop owner can any refuse service to women and have a male only for profit business.
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There, I hope that helps you understand what I believe "what should be", as a result you are free to print out your previous statement, fold it neatly and shove it up you ass.
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