Here is the economic problem addressed in this post:
Nearly 100 million Americans received some form of government assistance in 2019, according to a 2023 estimate from the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS).
The federal government has assistance programs in place to support Americans who can’t afford food, housing, healthcare, and other needs. This is sometimes referred to as a social safety net, a system of programs designed to support people struggling economically. In 2022, around one in three Americans was enrolled in at least one of those programs, including nearly half of all American kids.
In 2022, around one in three Americans was enrolled in at least one government assistance program, including nearly half of all American kids.
usafacts.org
So what about the waitresses? They were former waitresses, actually.
It was at a poker room. One was about seventy, playing low stakes 1/3 hold 'em, while her husband was playing high stakes 15/30 Hi-Lo. The other was a dealer, maybe thirty to forty. She was Filipina and it's harder for me to tell their ages.
Somehow the topic of waitressing came up. The older player said she waitressed all through high school, that it was fun and she couldn't believe how much money she was making compared to friends working fast food. The younger dealer talked about how fast she was, and how she one day had to serve the whole restaurant because everyone else was out. She didn't care because that meant she was getting all the tips.
Now, she still has a job for tips, but I'm guessing much more, plus she isn't on her feet for eight to ten hours.
Whats the economic lesson? It isn't about how much education you have, how rich your parents are, how good your school was. It's about being willing to put in the work. That is a lesson today's welfare layabout need badly. What are the qualifications to wait tables? Knowing how to read, I suppose, but even that could be gotten around. Don't even have to do math anymore. Just be willing to work hard and put on a cheerful face even when you're tired.
That last may seem absolutely crazy to a typical welfare layabout. "Being tired suck!" Yes, but that is what people do when they have jobs. They work, work, work, and when the boss comes in and asks how ya doin'? they say "great!" The boss did the same and still does the same when the region manager checks in with him after a tough week. Why should people who do that be forced to pay for your leisure lifestyle?
Why did these ladies not simply go on welfare, take the easy way out? My guess is that they each come from a culture in which the idea of living off the work of others is hateful. The American culture from the sixties and seventies and the Fillapino culture.
We need to get that culture back. Fairness aside, the system in which anyone who prefers not to work can simply live off of the work of others is not sustainable. We can change it, or we can watch our economy tank. If not for us, for our grandchildren.