What I don't like is when Jews like you, begin to resort to sophistry and lies, to defend their views. You know darn well, that the more orthodox Jews are, the more they isolate themselves from everyone around them, that doesn't fit their standard of purity. The "goyim" according to religious Jews are impure, and if they as much as touch your kosher wine or anything that has to do with your rituals, it will render that which is touched ritually impure.
I remember when I was working with Israelis here in NYC, and they invited me to "Chabad" on a Friday night because I told them my father was Jewish. They treated me much better when they believed I was "half Jewish". They were informed I was "half-Jewish" in the synagogue, and I made the mistake of touching the Torah scroll when they took it out and started parading around, holding it. People touched it, kissed it, and then I made the mistake of touching it, and one of them freaked out. "NO!"...I was like "oh sh%t". He was like "You're not Jewish yet, you're still halachicly a goy. Don't touch the scroll!".
I would go to Chabad for the bread. That Jewish bread is amazing. The "Chala bread". I also like the Pastrami sandwiches and potato salad. Jews make the best sandwiches and potato salad.
We're supposedly impure, and hence Jews historically isolate themselves from the goyim. The more Orthodox Jews are the more they do that and to claim that's not the case, is just dishonest. I know you're now going to get pedantic and start straining the gnat, like you always do when we discuss these issues.
I did the same in Israel when I lived there for 8 months. If you're not Jewish, just tell them your father is Jewish and they'll lighten up and treat you better. I experienced the contrast, being among Jews as a "goy" and being with them as a "half-Jew", and it's like night and day. At the gym in Tel Aviv, I just told them I was Jewish and visiting to see if I was going to make "aliya". They were really nice to me. Goy, not nice, cold stares, not too responsive. Jew or half-Jew, you're good to go.