What I understand is you claim one situation where you set the parameters is OK and one situation where someone else sets the parameters is wrong because you don't like the parameters.
Common! Are you really that obtuse or are you just playing? It's not about what I like or do not like. It's not about what anyone likes or doesn't like. It is about whether of not a law passes constitutional muster.
When a law is challenged on constitutional grounds, the state must defend it by articulating, at minimum, a rational basis for having it. If a higher level of scrutiny is afforded the issue, the state may have to explain what the compelling government interest in maintaining the law is.
With me so far? I hope so.
Now, with this adoption thing, same sex couples are being treated differently from heterosexual couples. That is discrimination. The state of Mississippi is going to be hard pressed to explain why since there is no credible evidence that children are harmed by having gay parents. I have posted extensively on that subject. You might want to inform yourself better about it.
Still with me?
In addition, in many cases we are talking about children who are already in the care of a gay person, and who can benefit by a second parent adoption or step parent adoption by the partner of that gay person who is often the biological parent.
Children are harmed when they cannot be adopted. There are many other children who are in the foster care system who are in need of a home and it's cruel to deny them every opportunity to have two legal parents. Not only is there no rationality to it, it is just plain stupid.
The state od Miss. is going down on this one. If not at the District Court level, it will loose on appeal. As I said, it is not about what I like or dislike, but it seems to be about what you don't like while you ignore the legal reality that Miss. is engaging in an act of discrimination.
Please give us some sign that you can understand this. Are you really so blinded by your prejudice that you are willing to ignore the reality of what is in the best interest of the children? Are you so intent of sticking it to gay people that you will offer the children up as collateral damage?