An actual born-again, spirit-filled Christian, that is truly walking with Jesus, carrying his or her cross daily, will acquire and develop the knowledge and wisdom to deal with the world with all of its challenges. There is a supernatural "gravitas" or power that every sincere obedient believer possesses that allows them to end a wicked aggressor's hostile intentions and actions with a mere look. I know brothers who are so full of the Holy Spirit, that they can simply look at someone and stop them from continuing with their hostilities. They can even bring that person to tears, or trigger a sense of fear in them. It's "Jedi-like" in its power. It's the divine "force" that the prophets and apostles had. The Holy Spirit isn't an impersonal force or power, but nonetheless, the person of the Holy Spirit bestows power. He provides you with the divine "force", to overcome all obstacles. Ini Greek it is ENERGIA and DUNAMIS. In English, we get the word "energy" from the Greek Energia. And we get the word "dynamo" or "dynamite" from the Greek Dunamis.
If you're a male. Practice continence. Keep your semen in your gonads. don't masturbate. That procreative, sexual energy, is transmuted into every other area of your life. So if you want to become a truly influential and powerful witness of Christ, you must practice continence.