Earth is fine tuned for life right now. Use to be mars.
Where's all the life if the universe is so pro life?
I actually agree with you. I think life is everywhere. Were nothing special in fact were too small to know.
You have no idea if Mars was ever suitable for life or if any life has ever existed on Mars. There are people who believe this is possible, and I agree... anything is possible. You have this fixation problem where certain things are said to be possible and your brain converts that to undeniable truth. Science has been wrong more times than it has been right.
I actually don't believe life is abundant in the universe. I think it is extremely rare, at least as far as intelligent life as we know it. Aside from a fine tuned universe, there are about another hundred or so circumstantial variables which have to be a certain way or life on Earth never exists. Dozens upon dozens of specific events in specific order at a specific place and time... Thousands of totally lucky rolls of the dice for literally millions of species to have even had a chance to evolve... humans included.
Now think about this a moment... If an asteroid or whatever it was, had not wiped out the dinosaurs... mammals could have never evolved any larger than rabbits. Humans would have never emerged. Without the human mind, what does any of this mean?