Penelope
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- Jul 15, 2014
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Me and my siblings smoked in the womb. We all smoked, and only 1 brother has not quit. Did you know patients use smoked in their hospital beds even up till the high 1980s and I worked at a major hosp in WI. It was very widely accepted.
Well anyway, I quit with the patch long ago, I had tried several times before I finally did, its hard to live with someone who smokes, every time I'd quit I'd take his cigs and start again.
Finally I wore the patch, for around 5 months. My husband is not allowed to smoke in the house, he smokes in the garage. He has his computer, desk, and frig out there as well as heat. It pissess me out on how much he spends on cigs and that he continues to smoke.
It affects everything, life ins, health ins, and his health.
I did put on 5 lbs but lost it. Your metabolism naturally slows down but you adjust. If you drink you might want to quit before , as they go hand in hand, but I don't drink.
You can and should quit.
Thank you, Penelope.
My fiancé despises smokers. She won't allow me to smoke indoors either, which I really can't stand myself so no problem there. For me—in addition to the nicotine addiction itself—smoking is about exploiting a self-justifiable reason, or an excuse more like, to go outside at work and just enjoy the day for a few minutes. I also don't smoke in our vehicles, either. My biggest problem with smoking seems to be I can either slip outside wherever it's forbidden, or do smokeless tobacco until I get the chance to light up again. Yeah, with the whole metabolism, thing, that's kind of funny. I workout daily at a gym on base and then smoke a few immediately afterward. When I run PT with the NG or whatever active duty unit I happen to be training with, I smoke in formation. In other words, I often exercise and smoke the same time. Not cool, I know.
Well they say light smokers have just as hard a time quitting. I know heavy smokers in their late 60's and as long as they keep moving they keep going, that is not to say they do not have hypertension or a touch of COPD. I know when smoking was no longer allowed in the hospitals we use to take a break and smoke outside, we got away from the hustle for a few minutes. Patients in IV's and WC's were smoking in the smoking areas. Sounds like you are in good shape and well if your fiancé despises you smoking it should be easy to quit. I can smell it on my husband clothes, his hair and mouth. It stinks. I'm sure that would be a good wedding gift to give her. They say the worst person is someone who has quit, I tend to agree with that. In the meantime do not be so hard on yourself, but keep trying.