I’d probably lie to them and tell them we don’t have one just so when they’re old enough they don’t go looking for it.
That's the exact opposite of what you should do. The key to safety is education, not ignorance. Kids aren't retarded. They can be taught to respect the power of firearms. It's when you keep them ignorant that their curiosity gets the better of them and people end up dead. Would you really gamble on the kid never finding out about it at any point during their childhood? I wouldn't. I'd rather educate my child thoroughly and make sure they understand all of the dangers involved.
It’s possible to educate without telling them there’s a firearm within their reach. We were all kids once and we know how they think—that they’re smarter than us. If they don’t think there’s a gun to be found they won’t go searching for it. I respect your opinion and maybe when my kids are older I’ll agree with you. That said, they will be going over to other people’s houses eventually and I can’t trust others to keep their guns locked up so I will definitely be letting my kids know what I expect of them. I can control where I put my gun but I can’t control where others put theirs, nor can I rely on others to do what I think is necessary to keep children safe... these toddler gun incidents are evidence enough of that.
When I raised my child I always asked parents of her friends if they had a gun in their house.
Thank goodness none of my child's friends had parents had guns but if any of them had answered yes to that question, my child would never have been able to go to that house.
My personal choice is to never own a gun. Never allow anyone in my home who has a gun with the exception of the police.
That takes care of anyone being hurt by a gun in my home.
Yes I've asked friends of mine if they have guns in their homes. One said yes. I told that person I won't go to his house as long as that gun is there. He got rid of the gun. I told him that he didn't have to do that. He has a right to have a gun. He said that he never uses it and didn't want it anymore.
Everyone has a right to own a gun. Everyone also has the right to not own one and not be around one.
People can go blast away at whatever they want legally. I could care less. Just keep it away from me. The problem is that people who shouldn't have a gun or people who are irresponsible with their gun do have guns and innocent people get hurt or killed.
Those parents are going to have to live with this for the rest of their lives and no amount of prison time is going to stop that. Just imagine having to go through life knowing that your gun killed your baby. I know I wouldn't want to have that with me for the rest of my life.