I don't fear them, I just believe the definition of marriage is between two people of opposite sexes.
Then you have an irrational opposition to gay rights.
You're a retard. You apparently have a fear of using your brain. A few years ago all leading Democrats ran on traditional marriage. We are to believe they went from irrational to rational because they hopped on the gay marriage bandwagon overnight?
Obviously not, the pro-gay crowd are liars and try to bully people into accepting their views by twisting language. It's the thing that has many people feeling very negative about homosexuals when they didn't give it much thought before.
Yes, people wise up over time.
If you can't state any rational reasons for denying gays the right to marry, or equal rights in hiring, or accommodation, or housing, etc.,
then your opposition is irrational.