Gender very much divides as some see restrictions on either side. This is woman's work. This is a man's work. This fact creates a mental division. It builds artificial walls. There are some very good books on gender discrimination working in both ways.
yeah, ok
but there is mens work and womens work.
there are jobs women struggle at that men accell at, and jobs women can do that men won't bother with b/c it's a pain to flounder about.
What you did there was make a gender judgment. You are assuming that no men would be good at a certain work because you think it feminine. It also assumes that all women cannot do certain tasks because society assigned them to gender specific roles.
This is not always true. In fact in many cases it is not true.
example: A man can clean a house and cook equally as well as a woman. Yet advertising most of time shows a woman cleaning a home or cooking. They also show males in those roles many times as inadequate to the task and looking foolish.
This is what I mean by the gender divide. It's more the mental image than the reality.