The way you explain your positions strongly signals that you have a very binary position on race - if your are black, then you must possess X, Y, Z, etc. Black women have an elevated risk of ER negative breast cancer than do white women but this doesn't mean that every black women by virtue of her race will develop breast cancer.
Race is a group concept, not an individual concept, and so because of the group nature we're dealing with DISTRIBUTION of traits. The best and most widely documented aspect of this is IQ - mean black IQ is 85 compared to mean white IQ of 100. This doesn't mean that every black person has an IQ of 85 because they are black. One of six black people has an IQ of 100 or higher.
Maybe what you're trying to say is that you can't walk up to stranger, see that they are black, and KNOW anything about who they are as a person. Does that individual have an IQ of 85 or 100 or 110? Knowing that they are black doesn't tell you the answer. However, if you were allowed to play the odds, your safest bet would be to claim that this person's IQ was between 80 and 90 because that range centers around the mean and so captures the most black people, thus increasing your chances of guessing correctly.
To explain this succinctly, race doesn't dictate anything, it signals the odds for many things.
I am an 'out of the box' person so, no, I don't generally think of people in terms of 'groups.' I might say 'I'm a gamer' and folks might assume that puts me in the basement of my parents house, but the truth is I am not defined by being a 'gamer' alone. I'm also a mother of 5, a manager, a business owner, and I retired wealthy at age 20, got bored and went back to work again.
Statements made about 'groups' are almost always flawed so I do not use, nor agree with them. I admit that if I see a gang (of any color) that doesn't look like 'safe' people, I try to avoid them cause I don't want any trouble, but that's really about as far as my judgment of 'groups' goes. It is therefore troublesome for me to understand using a 'group' as a basis for anything, much less how I interact with someone.
When I walk up to someone on the street I don't really think about their IQ. I mean, I guess, if I am being completely honest, I already know that they're IQ isn't at my level so I don't 'need' to think about that, but that doesn't really enter my mind. When 'I' walk up to someone on the street I am more interested in wanting to know more about them; where'd they come from, what do they do... ah, basically how is their life
different from mine and what can I perhaps learn from their experiences and knowledge. Though, given, that might just be me cause I am "EverCurious," its the way I was raised.
I prefer to deal with people as individuals, rather than as a 'group' with 'group' definitions. I'll attempt to clarify my position in saying that I do not believe it is 'group' politics we need to resolve racism and the welfare state, but rather policies that can help the 'individual' get out of that lifestyle. When I look at 'ghetto culture,' I see a bunch of individual people who want attention and respect. 'Group' based policies cannot address providing the individual with
positive attention and respect, which is why I believe they fail.