hahha, yea, we need two more to make a full softball team!
Actually, my wifes last delivery was very difficult on her. She is the only woman I have truly loved, and it was extremely frightening for me when her bleeding wouldnt stop. For the first time ever I felt things, including some fear, I had never felt before. I DONT want to go throught that again, fearing she might die. I couldnt take it. She agrees, so we are looking at adopting in a year or so.
After the delivery and during the bleeding, I looked at the doctor and showed him a very anxious expression. The set up was that other doctors with less experience were learning and performing. This guy, Dr Eden was supervising. I could tell from the way the doctor who was trying to stop the bleeding, that she had never dealt with this situation before. She kept telling him she cant see where the bleeding is coming from. I looked at the doc, like, uh DUDE, my wife is bleeding to death here, DO SOMETHING!,,,,so he told one doctor to administer a drug, and it stopped the bleeding. I thanked the doctor later, as his calmness during it was the ONLY thing that stopped me from going off and demanding that someone who knew what they were doing take over.
He also later said I handled it very well, better than most. I guess it is very hard on men to see their wife bleeding like that. We think we need to protect our women, and we will go up against three NFL linebackers in a fight to prove it, but when you are helpless to do ANYTHING, oh my god, you dont want to experience that.
But anyways, take a look at that baby~ how could you not want more????