Governing requires a certain degree of control over people's lives. You're complaining about certain issues that require the government to have authority and power. We the people have vested our government with certain powers, in order for it to serve our interests as individuals and a community. Government isn't inherently evil or good, it's whatever we want it to be. It's a social apparatus organized by the people to manage their large-scale, socioeconomic projects and affairs.
The government is a management tool that many of the wealthy ruling elites hate because it's the power of the people. The public at large isn't of the elite class, but of the working class. They truly hate the government and are always trying to control it to reduce democracy (the rule of the people). They do everything they can to turn government into an oligarchal plutocracy, ruled by the rich and powerful, rather than the working-class.