Fascists.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
I don't think you know what it means.
I know exactly what it means, and what it doesn't. It doesn't mean deciding who to support for President without asking your opinion. No one is in any way obligated to ask for YOUR opinion before deciding who to support, up to and including political parties. The fact that they DO ask when they choose to in no way obligates them to listen to you.
The fact that you plunged into the middle of a Presidential campaign behind your Orange Messiah without either of you having clue one as to how the process works does not mean someone else is being underhanded when you find out how clueless you actually are.