If you even have to ask this question on a PUBLIC MESSAGE board then I'm afraid you're in trouble!
You type as though you have a lot of doubts. Ever hear the word "When in doubt don't"? You need to do some serious soul searching as to why you are going to ask a woman to marry you. Marriage is a commitment that shouldn't be taken lightly as so many have. It's not only your life, its your childs and your future wife. Are read to spend the rest of your life with this woman?
''When in doubt,
Do without!''
not that i am saying this is the case with paul....but the term above is what we used when making buys/purchases, at work....
