Can you guys stop using these tired canards alluding to some very generalized notion of equality and fairness?
Do you have a problem with the 'generalized notions' of equality and fairness? If so, what are those problems - as they relate to gay marriage.
For me, marriage is the unique union of a man and a woman because it is RIGHT. The idea of changing my view just because it's not all-inclusive doesn't factor in. I don't have a problem with equality and fairness as generalized notions, but I also don't view the world through that kind of lens all the time.
I would love to qualify for Social Security while still being an able-bodied, employed 20something. It would help me out a lot. But I understand it's there (ideally) for people who are not capable like me to work and provide for themselves, so it wouldn't be right for people like to receive it.
What I mean is, in my opinion, there's too much reliance on the idea that if we treat all couples the same, things will inherently be better. I don't think that it will,
and furthermore, "marriage equality" is a misnomer...since those who want gay marriage have no shame in
disqualifying other people from enjoying state-sanctioned, subsidized marriage.
What?
Legal marriage is an acknowledgment of the social institution.
As many benefits are tied to employment and income, taxation, economic factors that come with having a family, that's the main reason we have these benefits.
It's not just to assert that people with spouses are better than those who are single.
AND..........
Is it obvious? Some people seem to think "the right to marry the person you love" is an accurate statement, and it's not. It never has been.
If you acknowledge that the state (and yes, I'm including the People) has the right to set parameters on marriage, then you acknowledge that 1) it's a matter of social policy and not constitutionally protected civil rights, and 2) that notions of "equality" are largely unrealistic and irrelevant when talking about marriage.
Some could very well argue - and many do - that it indeed is a matter of constitutionally protected civil rights. Do you have your own argument against it?
You can't just contradict me and then ask me to argue against your unexplained contradiction. What is the basis for that argument?