You have never been to a gay bar? Seriously?
In the 70's, while I was attending a junior college, I sent a "resume" to the Ashland Oregon Shakespearean Festival on the dare of a girl I was dating. They sent me an "audition" date in San Francisco. Me, her and a couple of our friends made the hour drive to the audition and spent the day paling around the city.
The audition was hilarious. Everyone else was doing these exotic ballet and jazz type dances in tights and "dance shoes". I "borrowed" some tap shoes from the theater department from the Jr. College and made up a tap dance and sang "What would you say" while dancing. Everyone was laughing and clapping.
Lo and behold, a few weeks later, I got a call from the Festival choreographer asking me if I were interested. Of course, I asked, "Who is this?" When the plane ticket showed up in my mail box a few days later, I was floored.
After a few weeks at the festival, I finally had the nerve to ask her why she hired me. After all, she had to know my "tap dance" was a joke.
She said I had enough ability that it was obvious I could do the dances, but she said no one had ever connected like that at an audition. She said if I could connect that way with the audiences at the festival, then it was a risk worth taking.
Anyway, the whole point it, "Talk about gay?". If you don't want to be around gays, spending 7 months at the Shakespearean Festival is the wrong place to be. I guarantee it.
I think it's hilarious these guys that are "afraid" they might get hit on. Just say "No!" YOU'RE A GUY! You think another guy is stronger than you? That they might "kiss" you and you can't "fight back"? I'm laughing as I'm writing this. Right wingers so funny. The things they imagine. No wonder their world is so dark.