Fear of spiders is unwarranted. They are not out to get you.
I have a friend that had a pet tarantula for several years. (So this thread is not out of place.) She'd let it crawl all over her and any guest willing to sit still for it.
Here's a black one I caught in the driveway.
Here's another that had built a web using one the the antennae on my truck. I have several photos in a sequence wherein it rushed from the center of its web and went out of the viewfinder. I thought it was going to crawl up my arm. It was going after the Yellow Jacket that had just hit the web as I was focusing for another shot.
...and here it is having breakfast.
Voltaire is said to have said that he learned patience by watching spiders. I suppose that's one thing they're good for.