Sorry that was not clear to me.
It is natural and good that we care more for life that is closer to us.
I will fight and die for my family.
I would fight and risk my life for my nation.
For some guy on the other side of the planet that I never met, and have nothing in common with?
He has my best wishes.
In the sense that you should care more for your family than your nation, as the order you (rightly) just concocted, of importance:
I would say that a nation that goes from a community of people to an entity that oversees the capitalistic machine which is ruining the family nucleus.....
That the two ideas are in conflict with one another.
And im not talking about the left interfering with the markets or else "capitalism would be perfect," as a conservative might answer...
Butnthe idea of capitalism itself....where a chuld is inspired to work work work to go AWAY to a good school....and SUCCESS! is leaving your town to rise through the ranks of a Corporation by working 80 hours a week.....
Id suggest that person is broken and brainwashed. Working hard to feed the machine, toward an invisible success that in theory you'd share with the tight knit family....
But that family sees you 30minutes maybe in the evenings and the rest of them live back in small town USA where there was no ladder for your programmed idea of success.
Its nice to work hard and innovate as a species and all - but at some point you habe to wonder if this detachment from our humanity to feed our economy is right or wrong, despite all of the wonderful rhetoric about your blood, sweat and tears.