If Homosexuals want to be accepted, they need to some accepting. Otherwise this perpetual cycle of hatred and intolerance will continue. Nobody likes to be forced to do anything, but somehow one group can foist themselves and their lifestyles on another with utter impunity. What would you rather do, breed further hostility? Or come to a mutual understanding?
Allowing bigotry to flourish by putting it in a costume of religion is what will perpetuate a cycle of hatred and intolerance.
1. You want to expand what qualifies as a religious belief to whatever someone claiming to be religious says is part of their religious beliefs.
2. You want religious beliefs, and the actions stemming from them, to be unlimiited civil rights, unassailable by the government.
3. The result? You get what the Supreme Court warned against in Reynolds v United States, the case that upheld the outlawing of polygamy:
...the only question which remains is whether those who make polygamy a part of their religion are excepted from the operation of the statute. If they are, then those who do not make polygamy a part of their religious belief may be found guilty and punished, while those who do, must be acquitted and go free.
This would be introducing a new element into criminal law. Laws are made for the government of actions, and while they cannot interfere with mere religious belief and opinions, they may with practices.
Suppose one believed that human sacrifices were a necessary part of religious worship; would it be seriously contended that the civil government under which he lived could not interfere to prevent a sacrifice? Or if a wife religiously believed it was her duty to burn herself upon the funeral pile of her dead husband; would it be beyond the power of the civil government to prevent her carrying her belief into practice?
So here, as a law of the organization of society under the exclusive dominion of the United States, it is provided that plural marriages shall not be allowed. Can a man excuse his practices to the contrary because of his religious belief?
To permit this would be to make the professed doctrines of religious belief superior to the law of the land, and, in effect, to permit every citizen to become a law unto himself. Government could exist only in name under such circumstances.
Sadly, there is a considerable support on the Right nowadays for exactly what the last paragraph is warning us of.
Reynolds v. United States - 98 U.S. 145 (1878) :: Justia US Supreme Court Center